Driving myself mad, please please help.

[MissJuly10]

Is it possible to ovulate on cycle day 14 EVEN if you're irregular?

I noticed a tiny little (about the size of a 5-10p pence) patch of discharge last night, but couldn't quite decide on the colour! It was a pale brownish reddish colour.

I've had v. mild cramping/twinges/pulling feeling, I seriously thought it was pre AF cramps but I know it's too early for my AF.

I noticed that it seems my CM increases in the evening and its a very wet clear/whiteish colour. We've BDed every day since 27th Sept but we missed 2 days in the days following end of AF in Sept, and missed last night and a few nights ago. My boobs look swollen again but are not sore, veins are visible again and notice they are sometimes raised so you can see them popping out LOL.

There are other things I have noticed but trying so hard (and failing) not to symptom spot!

Any ideas??

Edited to add that in Sept, my AF finally arrived after 45-46 days, don't think that includes counting from first day of last AF in which case would make it 50 days. Currently awaiting this AF and have NO idea when it will arrive.

 

[clairebear22]

Aww Miss July you sound just like I did when we first started TTC in December. I came off the pill and had 6 long cycles averaging 40ish days. I decided to take Agnus Castus tablets to see if it would sort my cycles out.

It did and within 3 months of taking it (cycle 9) I got my BFP!!

I'm not saying they will work for everyone but seeing as they're herbal 'whats the worst that can happen'?!

PM me if you want to know how many I took and for how long etc. I'd be happy to help!

Chin up hun, you'll get there!

xxx

 

[MissJuly10]

Thanks, I've looked into all sorts of remedies but I'm also trying to stick to what I agreed with my husband - that we'd keep this as natural as possible so no OPKS and no potions and lotions lol.

I reckon OPKs would be great but he thinks it will make it more stressful.

 

[FallingStar]

Hubby and I adopted the 'Not trying, not preventing' approach too Think it's best as there's no massive pressure. Wishing you all the best and hope to see your BFP announcement soon xxx

 

[clairebear22]

I didn't really get on with OPK's.

I too wish you lots of luck and am looking forward to your BFP news!

xxx

 

[MissJuly10]

Thanks Claire. Congrats on your BFP. x