A dreamfeed is one normally given around 11pm - I do mine at 11:30, 4hrs after her previous feed. Where you lift them up and feed them without making any effert to wake them. Initially I did a nappy change to wake her at this time, as I was trying to encourage her to drop the 4am ish feed. Once she dropped that feed, I stopped doing a nappy change and waking her at 11:30. Sometimes she wakes when I pick her up and go in but other times, she doesn't. Her eyes stay closed, but when I gently rub my nipple under her nose she starts rooting and I put her on the breast, she then drinks and (sometimes) comes off without waking.