doctors appointment

[winnie89]

day 14: still nothing, getting really depressed now, everywhere i go, there are pregnant women, on every single tv channel there is a pregnant woman and things to do with babies, after i have had this scan i think i'm going to go into a year wtt because it's going to break my heart if this keep happening every month and i dont think i can handle that!

 

[nicky1987]

Oh babe. im still no af 4 weeks late tomorrow unless as the doc suggested my spotting was a light period!!! i dunno i guess we just have to wait and see what our scans say huni. im hear to listen anytime you need to offload hun xxxx

 

[winnie89]

Thanks hun just had enough at the moment, life just seems so unfair and it's really getting me down

 

[Vickyxx]

Hey Hun

I have PCOS and unlike your doctor mine were very positive about it all, it may comfort you to know that ... About one in five women in the UK has polycystic ovaries, and approximately one in 10 has PCOS to some degree.

Having the condition doesnt mean you will never have a baby, it just means it may take a bit longer and you may need a little bit of help along the way.

Try not to worry about it (I know its hard) wait until you have had your scan and see what they say, and just think if you do have it at least you can then start getting the treatment you need x

 

[winnie89]

thanks hun, i know having PCOS doesnt mean that i cant have kids i just think i need to be in a better place mentally physically and financially, if it's meant to be it will happen, i want my marriage to work and prosper, before we argue and split up. (marks been feeling a bit neglected because i dont know where i am in my head and we've been arguing. ALOT!)

The thing is people keep asking me when the kids are coming and it's like i havent even been married 6 months yet! give us chance! i then get other people telling me i'm too young to have children, but all the rest of the underage kids, who are getting pregnant illegally are old enough and mature enough! (yeah cuz thats not contradictory) just need to sort me out before i bring a child into all of this crazyiness we call our world!

 

[Vickyxx]

Ignore what everyone is saying hun, this is your life, you make the decisions!!

Maybe spend some time focusing on your hubby, dedicate one night a week to no TV or computers and just spend some time together. When things get you down ask him for a cuddle, let him help take some of the pressure you are feeling, its a hard thing to do on your own and it will make him feel included x

 

[winnie89]

yeah we've been going out one night a week and spending alot more time together so things are looking up. i think he gets annoyed with me because i'm always depressed, and he's like snap out of it! but it's easier said than done! it's easy for men to say u've just gotta get it out of your head, it's like ti's always going to be there at some point because it's a part of life! he's very good at keeping me slightly sane!

 

[Vickyxx]

He sounds like a great guy hun x

I have my bad days and then I have my awful days, that is when I try and focus on all the positives I have in my life and be grateful for them, sometimes its helps other times a few glasses of wine and some chocolate work better

 

[winnie89]

yeah i know the feeling! i love the person who invented chocolate! lol

 

[nicky1987]

hope your feeling better today babe xxxx

 

[winnie89]

yeah not so bad today i'll be better once this scan is out of the way, and i finally know whats wrong. only 23 days left (not like i'm counting the hours or anything!!) lol hubby is being as supportive as a man can be (so not very much!! lol)

 

[nicky1987]

good im glad your feeling a bit better today. i know what you mean about the scan. mines next week and im counting the days too!!! hopefully good news for both of us!! xxxx

 

[winnie89]

Yeah hopefully hun hope we both get what we want!

 

[dyscochick]

I've got polycystic ovaries although bloods mostly normal like yours so not full blown PCOS. I got pregnant very easily and although it didn't stick this time, that was bad luck, nothing to do with my ovaries. please don't think the worst, stay positive. Two other friends were told they were PCOS and fell very quickly (one without even having af after coming off the pill). Now they have beautiful little boys. Chin up hun! xxxx