DNA Test

[mummytoBee]

any mums have OH's that have requested a dna test? when me and my bf argue he always goes on about one, as people feel the need to interefere in our relationship and tell him lies about me, he says he doesnt believe them but he wants to be sure, i have no problem with this because 10000000000000000000% he is the dad, i was only sleeping with him as im not the type to cheat. just wondering where we would go for this and how much it would set us back? x

 

[Charlotte & Emily]

Hi

I found this website: http://www.ibdna.com/?gclid=CO_blcm9-YoCFQONQAodqS7Dmw

Hope it helps

 

[Minxy]

I think the issue would be why he doesn't trust you. How do you feel about that?

It's all a bit Jeremy Kyle for me

 

[Urchin]

I think the issue would be why he doesn't trust you.

I agree. My OH had a vasectomy before I met him, when I got pregnant he trusted that it was the V that didn't work, and didn't even ask about it being someone else.

 

[violet-glow]

I think the issue would be why he doesn't trust you.

That must be very upsetting for you hun. I dont know really what to say to make you feel a bit better... so im going ot give you a hug instead xx

 

[Gemma & Jake]

If my B/F said he wanted a DNA test I would be really offended and would never get one done if I knew I hadn't been cheating. Sorry but I think he is out of order and you should tell him that if he doesn't trust you then what is the point of your relationship. I do hope it works out for you though.

 

[Redshoes]

mummytoBee
I think your b/f is being very insensitive suggesting things like that Do you think he believes it when he says it? That he believes it could be another man's baby? I've heard some terrible nasty things come out of dad's to be, and a lot of what mummys say is its nerves, rather than them actually believing it's someone elses LO.

All I'm saying (and it's just my opinion, so ignore me please if you disagree), is I think you need to tell him how it makes you feel when he says it, and ask him if he really means it or if its something else, some people just aren't good expressing their feelings, especially if its fear, having a baby is a big thing as we all know, and that might be his misguided way, not easy for everyone to sit down and say 'I'm scared'

I haven't said all that because I think that's what he's doing but it's worth noting because he is your b/f, you're having a LO together and it's best to talk these things out if it's upsetting you, get him back focused on all the wonderful things that are coming your way

Maybe get him a becoming a daddy book, to suit his personality, that might help? Very best wishes, and I hope he never says it again to you

 

[Xena]

If it were me, I'd be very upset that I wasn't trusted.

Honestly if I were in that situation, I'd get one one, but I wouldn't be able to stay with him after that.