father of baby starting 2b a problem?

Discussion in 'Second Trimester' started by Kerry, May 13, 2005.

  1. Kerry

    Kerry Well-Known Member

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    My initial reaction is that if he doesn't trust you it wouldn't work anyway, a relationship cannot survive without trust. If it was me, and I was as sure as you are that he is the father, I would stick to my guns, there is after all no reason for a DNA test, there are no other possible fathers.

    To take a good line from Bridget jones 2.......next time he asks for a DNA test tell him:

    "I won't dignify that question with an answer"

    ..........Sorry.........huge Bridget fan!!

    Good luck to you what ever you do - keep us posted.
     
  2. ranger*goy

    ranger*goy Member

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    At least by taking a DNA test he cant argue with the Child Support Agency. Sounds like he's trying to shirk his responsibilities to me, financially and emotionally.
     
  3. Urchin

    Urchin Well-Known Member

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    To be honest if you don't really know each other that well maybe it is best to get a DNA test.
    If you were him you might want a bit of reasurrance that it's your baby aswell.
    I know he SHOULD trust you, but it's early days and you haven't know him very long so why should he trust you really?

    I would get the DNA test, but don't resent it, it's a big thing for him to come to terms with, so try to understand a little.
     

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