Depressed over boobs

[Dee83]

I really need a moan...

Ok so i was originally a 32G. Got measured when i was 12weeks and was told i was a 34H. I know that i have grown again as the bra i bought when i got measured is too small now so i am probably about a 34J. I am feeling really down as my boobs are starting to really sag with all the extra weight. I know that after the baby, when they go back to their original size, they are gona end up looking like spaniels ears. I will never be able to afford uplift surgery in the future so they are only going to sag even more. I know it sounds petty but it is really getting me down. My boobs used to be my pride and joy but now they are becoming my body hate.

 

[pinkyprincess]

Aww chick! You might get lucky with them, not all women go saggy!

 

[Dee83]

They've already gone quite saggy tho. Even hubby agreed (although not in so many words).

 

[ISH]

Pregnancy is all about worrying, isn't it? I am petrified about gaining weight, saggy stomach (as I have no boobs to speak of) and any number of um, more private aesthetic issues.

I hope holding our babies will put things into perspective. I am getting a bit tired of being so shallow!

 

[BabyBrain]

My friend's wife went through this and she ended up getting a breast reduction on the nhs because they hurt her back (she went to a size jj). They only take up to 2 sizes away but hey its free and uplifted

 

[nikkie88]

It does sound petty but it's one thing i thought about, but my mum agreed if i breast fed my baby she'd pay for a boob job!! lol..... Although she probably agreed on the knowing that by the time the baby comes my boobs will be the last things on my mind.. as i'll be too busy doting on my new bubba! x

 

[Dee83]

It's funny really (well not literally) how i am being so affected by my looks when i have so much more to worry about - i have Multiple Sclerosis and have the worry of whether or not i'm going to be able to walk or see etc after the birth and how i am physically going to cope with a child and here's me complaining about my boobs!

 

[Dee83]

My friend's wife went through this and she ended up getting a breast reduction on the nhs because they hurt her back (she went to a size jj). They only take up to 2 sizes away but hey its free and uplifted

Wow, that's good to know as i do suffer really badly with backpain! I will certainly keep that in mind! Thanks hun xxx

 

[BabyBrain]

Sorry to hear about your MS hun. Our company help several new mums with their kids and general cooking/cleaning who have MS, might be worth looking into (contact social services) as even if temporary it could just help you get into the swing of things after the birth and take a bit of pressure off you. If nothing else we are someone different to talk to

 

[Hunnie]

It's funny really (well not literally) how i am being so affected by my looks when i have so much more to worry about - i have Multiple Sclerosis and have the worry of whether or not i'm going to be able to walk or see etc after the birth and how i am physically going to cope with a child and here's me complaining about my boobs!

so sorry to hear this but Id rather you worried about your boobs than about the MS. Everyone has body pet hates, I despise the fact at the minute I feel like my boobs look like udders and that the stretch marks on my legs have darkened again . I too want my boobs back!

 

[english rose]

How's about investing in some really good top quality bras? Not sure where you would get them from, but maybe try to research specialist shops online. It probably won't solve the problem altogether, but you might feel a bit more comfortable/supported.
xxx

 

[Sarah13]

I hate my boobs now too, they were ruined when I had my daughter so know how you feel. I can see them getting even more horrible by the day and will probably be at my knees by the time I've breast fed this one! Guess there's not much we can do about it other than remind ourselves they are to nurture our little ones and wear good bras!

 

[Dee83]

Sorry to hear about your MS hun. Our company help several new mums with their kids and general cooking/cleaning who have MS, might be worth looking into (contact social services) as even if temporary it could just help you get into the swing of things after the birth and take a bit of pressure off you. If nothing else we are someone different to talk to

Thanks for your message hun, it's very kind of you. The thing with me is that i am very independant, i was only diagnosed in 2008 when i was 24. I kind of don't want to give in to the MS, but that's not always easy! I will however keep your advice in mind so i know who to contact if i do feel i may need some help when LO has arrived! xxx