Dad At 13yrs! Pg 4 link 2 parents to triplets at 17!

[Sammystar]

Ok hw about something a bit more postive

http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/10 ... efits.html

I hate the way they wrote 'she was determined not to be a benefit scrounger'

So, all people on benefits are scroungers then..........

 

[Lou]

Great that not all young parents want to live on benefits But what if they aren't old enough to work What happens then? Do their parents have to support them? or are there special 'benefits' for children who have babies?

 

[mummykay]

Ok hw about something a bit more postive

http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/10 ... efits.html

I hate the way they wrote 'she was determined not to be a benefit scrounger'

So, all people on benefits are scroungers then..........

i agree sammystar, benefits arent ideal but thank god I get em or Jam wouldnt eat cos my wages arent enough to cover my shedload of bills

 

[mummykay]

to work and get benefits u need a national insurance number which u get at 16 - shes not 16 yet so how are they gonna get any money????

 

[Lou]

to work and get benefits u need a national insurance number which u get at 16 - shes not 16 yet so how are they gonna get any money????

Ditto

 

[Sammystar]

Ok hw about something a bit more postive

http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/10 ... efits.html

I hate the way they wrote 'she was determined not to be a benefit scrounger'

So, all people on benefits are scroungers then..........

i agree sammystar, benefits arent ideal but thank god I get em or Jam wouldnt eat cos my wages arent enough to cover my shedload of bills

me too. If it weren't for benefits I have no idea how I'd have kept mine and the kids heads above water since the ex did a bunk. I really hate the way the media print things like that

 

[charlotte_]

me three! without benefits i'd be screwed, it's not a long term plan, but for now i need them

i presume their parents will have to look after them financially.
wait... what's financially

 

[mummykay]

i presume their parents will have to look after them financially.
wait... what's financially

gd one charlotte looooooool

 

[Lou]

i presume their parents will have to look after them financially.
wait... what's financially

He gets £10 pocket money too remember

 

[Rock-Angel]

i presume their parents will have to look after them financially.
wait... what's financially

I think theres a time and place for benifits, for the ones here who have said they need it, then great, you have vailid reasons, its just the lad whos cant be bothered coz his gf wants him at hme that annoys the hell out of me!!!
or am I wrong to say that!

 

[mummykay]

i wanted my ex to be at home with me, but he had to go to work to put food on the table!!!

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah i really really wish I could sit on my fat ass all day and get paid for it but the morals my parents instilled in me in 'workin for what u want' wont leave me!!!!

 

[charlotte_]

no i think that's fair. my OH could quite easily quit his job and go on benefits so that he could live with us. but because he works, but doesn't earn enough to support us, we can't live together.

 

[Sammystar]

[quote="charlotte_":7e3o710m]

i presume their parents will have to look after them financially.
wait... what's financially

I think theres a time and place for benifits, for the ones here who have said they need it, then great, you have vailid reasons, its just the lad whos cant be bothered coz his gf wants him at hme that annoys the hell out of me!!!
or am I wrong to say that![/quote:7e3o710m]

no, you're not wrong. There are plenty of people who 'scrounge' and that does seem so unfair for the rest of us. Most people who receive benefits do so because they have no choice, and usually it's only temporary. That's what makes it so frustrating when you read about cases like this where people just cba to work and think the country owes them a living

I hate the fact I need help right now, but at least I paid my taxes for years so that makes it easier to accept.

 

[trixipaws]

i am wondering how long before i see these kids on jeremy kyle...

 

[LisaJ1986]

I'm 20 (I will be 21 when the baby is born) and both me on my OH scrape (yes, scrape) by on benefits.................... We don't live in a council house though, my OH's father is letting us live at a property of his rent free until we get ourselves sorted (you know, jobs are hard to come by, with 100 people applying for the same job you are ) when we'll go in to private renting again........

I dread to think what you think of me, a baby on the way too

I was 20 when i was pregnant, 21 when i gave birth. We were both working at the time. But now with the current climate we are both jobless and applying for everything possible we can get! We've both worked hard in the past so i don't feel so bad! And neither should you! At the moment things are difficult for everyone.

So don't ever worry about what people think of you! The future will change.

 

[Rock-Angel]

I wasnt going t mention this, But an X friend of mine is on benefits,
his is a convo that went on between us a couple months back before we stopped talkin!

She is 27, has 2 child and openly brags about being on beneifits, recently she met a guy, who is on disabilty allowance, when i asked why she said oh nothing hes faking it, since she has been with him she has discovered that if he moves in she can claim fr carrers allowance, I said ok so how much wil you be on, in total when he moves in, after all her bills are paid for, council tax and rent paid for, once she has paid her electric and water bills she wil be left with 450 in her pcket each month to live on!!!!!
I have asked her when He is going to get a job, to get the response, oh he cant be bothered, we are having a baby its easier, I said how old is he, hes 29, has he ever worked I asked, she replied no!!

OMFG! I wanted to slap her smug face!!! Now those are the kind of people who really anger me!!

 

[charlotte_]

yeah that pisses me off no end. a friend - term used loosely, of mine was claiming benefits fraudulently last year, she was claiming housing benefit & job seekrs allowance while she was working! at the time i had just found out i was pregnant, in full time education (which i had to quit) and completely struggling for money, i didn't need her flaunting it in my face that her wages alone paid her bills all the benefits were just pocket money.

 

[zebrastripes]

nr

 

[Baileysmummy]

to work and get benefits u need a national insurance number which u get at 16 - shes not 16 yet so how are they gonna get any money????

Ditto

I didnt work or have a national insurance Number when I first claimed.. I wasnt 16 either!
So it can be done there are ways around the system

I say Good luck to the kids.. You know what outrage's me.. All this talk..They should be prosecuted.. They old enough to think about sex, they old enough to accept responsability at the end of the day!
I dont blame the parents either.. How would any of you like it if it was YOUR child in this situation, You would be fuming if you thought people was blaming YOU

 

[fairymoon]

my daughter is 11 12 in april, she was telling me about her freind who is 12 and has a boyfreind, he wants to go further with her my daughter said mum wot does that mean, she know about sex and stuff but did not get that term, so i told her she said mum there to young all she cares about is her dancing well she had a good head on her shoulders she phoned the girls mum up to talk she said oh its fine i was her age she had her daughter at 14 so goes to show she wont listen, my daughter said mum belive me that wont be me plus her dad would kill her, her mum should do something not say its ok, and going bk to the story that boy looks so young and the 15 year old girl needs a good talking to and her mum and dad lletting boys stay over in her room yes right my mum would have killed me i was 21 when i got pregnant my dad hit the roof, but i still worked and looked after her it was hard if i could do it again i would have waited a frew years cus to me i was a very young 21,