Colleague back from MAT leave

[Trudyscrumptious76]

She wasn't due back til next week but a colleague has returned today from MAT leave. She's lovely and I do like her but it's hard to see her. In the time I've been trying she's fallen pg been on MAT leave and returned. Now some of the girls are all talking about their babies.

It's torture I feel like it's never going to happen for me. Sorry to moan. Just feel so down now. I'd mentally prepared myself for next week. It's been a bit of a shock. I feel a bit mean wish I could be happier for her.

 

[mum2be?]

i know how you feel hunny im sorry

My aunt is due next month which would have been when i would have been to which i am not going to like march i dont think.

unless i get my bfp

 

[choklatemunky]

I think we all feel like that at some points - must be really hard for you with it in your face. Chin up chuck your time WILL come x

 

[CB23]

Trudy

 

[Trudyscrumptious76]

Thanks guys. I'm just having a miserable day. Nothing seem to be going right. Just don't know how much longer I can keep being postive for.

 

[choklatemunky]

Oh hun. I know its hard - but it helps me to remember that all the people on here are in the same boat and all trying to acheive the same thing and the fact that there are other people to help me through the tough times really means a lot - Im sure it does to you too!

I know theres nothing much we can say - as when we feel down about all this stuff there isnt anything that will make us feel better (except a BFP!) but I often find that after a few days of moping I feel a little better.

Big Hugs

 

[CB23]

Trudy love, feeling exactly the same way myself, we should have a chocolate and wine thread where we can go off and be down in the dumps and drop in for hugs. Hope things seem a bit brighter soon.

 

[choklatemunky]

oooh yes - bring on the chocolate for sad days!
always helps a bit!

 

[Baileys-Angel]

hey trudy
i am sitting here writing this and my colleague sitting behind me is 7 months and moaning about her back / not sleeping etc so i know exactly how you feel. Chin up chuck, sending lots of babydust to you xxxxx

 

[notty]

Trudy love, feeling exactly the same way myself, we should have a chocolate and wine thread where we can go off and be down in the dumps and drop in for hugs. Hope things seem a bit brighter soon.

Sounds a great idea. Do you mind if i join you both?
I know how you feel Trudy and it is so difficult especially when you're surrounded by people who can pop babies out left, right and centre. I am looking forward to seeing your BFP announcement here. Let's hope it's soon

 

[Trudyscrumptious76]

Thanks guys. I can definitely do a chocolate and wine session. Pinot grigio and I might splash out and buy some green and blacks white chocolate. I'll get DH to light the fire and wallow in self pity. Plus it's my fav night of TV Channel 4 all night.

So sorry Baileys - angel. It must be difficult to have to listen to her all day. Hope your day has got better.

 

[Baileys-Angel]

ha ha its fine thanks
she has been "eating for two" since day 1 so she is MASSIVE tee hee . I have been having evil thoughts and have decided that when i am duffed up. i will never ever get that big. i am feeling tons better now . take care, enjoy your wine and choc xx