Hmmmmmm well we had two beautifully dressed little carol singers at our door this pm. I was right in the middle of cooking our tea, and I'm absolutely shattered atm, so I just said, "It's too early!" Their dad was waiting at the bottom of our drive just walked away and expected the kids (about 4 and 5) to follow him. I felt so awful, especially as I felt so grumpy, and thought "I'm going to be such a horrible mummy", but then to be honest, it IS too early for me lol. What do you reckon? (not about the mummy bit, the carol singers lol) I'm prepared to have my mind changed.....