Cant take anymore!

[Annabanna33]

This constant worrying is doing my head in. Im getting on all my family and partners nerves with every niggle being a major thing. I just cant do this anymore, its exhausting! So from now on i am not going to talk about it at all, maybe just come on here when i really need it.

 

[MrsBrightside]

Darling I know its hard!! try and stay positive tho, ive been told by my OH that im been a moan as well!!!

 

[Annabanna33]

im just finding it all really hard at the moment. im constantly petrified im going to have a m/c even tho if i did there wouldnt have been anything i could have done to prevent it. Im getting myself all worked up and constantly stressing about everything.

 

[rene70]

xx
dont know what i could say to ease youre mind i dont think theres anything anyone could say to take youre fear away, coz yesterday when i got my scan i asked the sister if i could possibly have another one at 10wks coz im so paranoid,with losing 2 before,she said no bcoz no matter if she gave me a scan every wk its not going to make me feel any less paranoid i understood where she was coming from, in fact it would probably make me worse, she said relax and enjoy being pregnant the love and feel good endorphines are passed onto your baby so thats what i do i rub my baby belly and tell it i love it and cant wait to meet it. as long as youre not bleeding theres no need to be scared hope that helps sprry for blethering on... xx

 

[hellie123]

Just wanted to let you know that I know exactly how you are feeling. Eversince I got that positive pregnancy test result all I have done it worry, I am just coming up for 8 weeks pregnant and I have spent 4 weeks of it worrying and the other 4 not even knowing I was pregnant. I have just over 4 weeks to go until my 12 week scan and I am so scared that something is going to go wrong, I am obsessed with knicker checking its mad!!! All I can say is how we are feeling is perfectly normal!!! x

 

[KateQPR]

Yeah AnnaB, i totally know how you feel.
I had a m/c last year, and this pregnancy is a real rollercoaster of fears. Every twinge, ache, etc, gets me running to the loo or crying because i think it's all going wrong! Even today, i have some mild twinges, so my instant assumption is somethings wrong (rather than that my peanut is trying to grow bigger!).

Its totally normal. I've found keeping a pregnancy diary is helping quite a bit. Only started it last week, but i write down everything i eat (to help work out what stops nausea) but also every symptom i'm getting. it means i've started seeing a pattern of things, so i now know i get twinges most evenings, and they're gone by the morning, so it's all normal. Give it a try. Makes you feel a bit more sane and in control of whats going on...

 

[jools221181]

 

[hellie123]

I completetly sympathise with you, I feel exactly the same, you have to take each day as it comes and try not to think ahead too much. Each day that passes I am thinking that they little one growing inside me is getting stonger and stronger. I have 4.5 weeks to go until first scan and I know its going to go so slow!! I am trying to keep busy to make the time go faster!! x

 

[Rosebay]

I totally sympathise hun, I had to take a break from the TTC board while we were TTC as I got so stressed out thinking about it all the time.

The first tri is such a psychological and physical challenge but you can do it! It's kind of a case of trying to forget while remembering the things that you have to be careful of if you know what I mean?


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[dannii87]

Girls, I can't even explain how much I admire you all in here... Seriously, I know I'm past 95% of the worry now but I was talking to my Mum the other day and told her I DREAD getting pregnant again and being in the 1st tri. I absolutely dread it.

I'm an awful worrier and every little twinge/niggle I got I used to fret over it. I was convinced there'd be no baby at my 12 week scan & that it was all in my head I always wanted to take a picture of a + pregnancy test too but was too scared to buy another one in case is said "NOT PREGNANT" lol

I used to dread going to loo & wiping in case I saw blood or something. It was horrible.

It'll be over before you know it. xxx

 

[missyj]

Im Glad im not the only one feeling worried...im scared incase i eat the wrong thing and also a huge worry is driving....i dont know why but i get nervouse getting in my car thinking what if i crash and i lose the baby and its all my fault