can't cope anymore!

[julie1989]

Well....where do I start!.Im 28 weeks pregnant and really have had enough! I'm constantly sick, i have really bad heartburn, no energy, feel like I can't breathe, I can't get comfy so I can't sleep. I could literally stay in bed allll day! Of course I can't as I have a 7yr old and a 3 year old to look after , housework to do, hubbys tea etc to make. I just feel physically and mentally exhausted and don't know how I'm gunna make it till 40 weeks! Makes me feel even worse when the kids are off school and nursery for Easter and I have no get up and go to do anything with them! someone give me sympathy! Lol xxxx

 

[MrsS143]

Can nobody take them off your hands to help you out while schools are off?
Your GP should be able to help with the heartburn
Tell hubby to make his own tea lol x

 

[roxyroo]

I agree! Can't you talk to your husband snd say he needs to help out more. Sonetimes they need a bit of a reminder of how tough things can be x

 

[buggy1]

I feel similar to you! I've got really bad pelvic pain, can't get comfortable, not sleeping well, busy with work and looking after DD. OH is helping where he can but he's out at work most of the week so he can't help if he's not here! Don't have any family nearby so haven't really got any other support.

All I can say is it does go quick, at least it feels that way when you look back, might not always seem it at the time. I'm just counting down the days x

 

[julie1989]

Hubby works 6-4 every day so like him to come home to his tea made and a tidy house! Thing is I'm normally really on the ball with stuff, like to have the house spick and span, washing and drying done etc, think I just need to chill out a bit and realise if I'm feeling a bit crappy, washing the dishes can wait till later and it's no harm done!. I just want to feel normal again!.I could even cope with feeling scrappy half of the week but its constant!. I have a gender scan and consultant app on Tuesday so going to have a word. Maybe all the being sick has made me a bit aneamic?? Xxx

 

[roxyroo]

Yeah could be hun, I know what you mean I'm like that and husband works the same hours too. I push myself all the time to get things done and I'm constantly on the go. I need to take s step back and just chill . Maybe try setting yourself a few tasks to do in a day and try to be happy that you've accomplished those and not worry about the rest as tomorrow is another day. Maybe try to get your 7 year old to help out a bit xx