So tonight I've been talking to OH about when to we seriously try for another baby and we got on the subject of bedtime. Currently bedtime with J (8 months) is sometimes a dream and sometimes a real nightmare and it could take us up to 2 hours to get her to settle. Although I am hoping her bedtimes will get better. It's got us wondering what other people do when they have a baby and a 18 month old at bedtime. Do you have different bedtimes and hope the first one settles as they should? What if they don't settle? Does that put the 2nd ones bedtime back? My OH works shifts so every other week he isn't home until after 11pm, so I would be having to do it on my own. Eeeek!!