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ZoeM

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Hi Everyone

Well I haven't been around for a while because I've lost my baby :cry: :cry:

I went for my 12 week scan on 17th only to discover that I had had a missed miscarriage and there was only a pregnancy sac present. :shock:

Since then I've been through a bit of a nightmare!!

I had to have a D & C the day after, but they told me that they hadn't managed to get it all and I would have to go back for a scan the following Thursday and then have a vaginal pessarie (sp?) to help get rid of the rest of it (or the 'product' :shock: as they called it!!)

So I had my follow up scan, only to discover that the entire pregnancy sac was still there :shock: :shock: The sonographer was quite angry about this and asked me who my surgeon was!!

Then a doctor came and read the notes the surgeon had written. Apparantly they thought they had damaged my womb and had to bring a consultant inot the operation, who confirmed that no damage had been done. However, they stopped the operation because they were being over-cautious, which was probably a good thing. I just wish they had told me this, instead of saying that they hadn't got it all!!

I was booked in for another D&C for the next day, but on Thursday night I thought I had passed the pregnancy sac :shock:

They told me to take it in the next day and when they saw it they confirmed it was the pregnany sac and that I wouldn't need a D & C!! I asked them whether I needed a scan to make sure it was the actual sac and they said all I needed was an internal examination!! A red industrial torch was then used to see of my cervix was open or closed :rotfl: :rotfl: ...honestly!!!

I was discharged and went home that night to see my Dad in Lincolnshire. I was there about 1 hour before having the most incredible pain I've ever had and before being rushed to A & E where I proeceeded to pass the real pregnancy sac which was about 10 times the size as the thing that came out on the Thursday night!! :shock: :shock: :shock:

All in all, I've had a really shit time over the past couple of weeks!!
 
oh thats terrible. they;ve made a hard time even harder for you.
Why cant they just be honest and say they made a mistake from the beginning.
I would make a complaint.

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OMG :shock:

Darlin' i am sooooooooo sorry - it must have been awful for you

sending you lots and lots of hugs :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
I don't have any words to make you feel any better
I am so sorry for your loss
:hug:
 
that's so terrible, they've made so many mistakes.
I hope they've offered you some kind of an explanation or apology.
I'm really sorry for your loss.
xxxx
 
:hug: i'm so sorry for your loss :hug:
i agree medical staff r crap took 6wks for them to decide that i had an ectopic!
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going though.

My thoughts are with you. :hug:

K.xxx
 
I'm so sorry you have had to go through a loss, and then to be treated with such disrespect would just add to the trauma. You are so strong to be dealing with things so well, I'm sure you'll be a Mum really soon. Sending loads of love and hugs :hug:
 
I'm so sorry for your loss...what a terrible thing to go through :cry: :cry:

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Can't believe what they put you through!

I really sorry for your loss. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
:hug: Poor you, sending you lots of hugs.

Cannot even begin to imagine what you have been through but you will be in my prayers. I hope you get through this xxxx
 
i am SO sorry for what you have been through :hug:

xx
 
Zoe, I am so sorry for your loss, what a terrible few weeks you have had.

Sending you lots of hugs :hug: :hug: :hug:


Michelle
xxxxxxx
 
i'm so sorry... your really brave to go though that.. big hugs for you :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
sorry for your loss and what an awful time you have had :hug:
 
im so sorry to hear about the missed miscarriage i had on back in feb 06 not a nice thing to go through i just let it go naturally never had a d+c or anything cant believe what they put you thriugh hun if you need a chat just pm me hun and take care :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 

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