Bad feeling

[Amanda W]

Well things are going rocky at the moment between me and my fella i have a very very very bad feeling we are gonna split up

 

[FebMum2Be]

Oh hun Could it be adjusting to your new way of life, less sleep etc xx

 

[Amanda W]

nope we are getting sleep etc he says everything i do i annoy him but he seems to think i dont wanna be around him anymore all because iam out showing of my baby girl after being stuck in the house because of my wound but thing is he always seems to be happyer when is around ppl like now we are both downstairs and he isnt even talking to me i asked him a question and he wont even speak only via txts

 

[FebMum2Be]

It sounds like he has the issues.. Have you spoke to him about it yet? He won't even answer you? That's just plain rude hun, even if he is feeling down or you are having issues he should be at least answering you x

 

[Amanda W]

he says everything i do i piss him off sorry for swearing i have to speak to my friend about it and because he heard me he had a go at me how can i just sit back and take it hes been thru the pregnancy stage etc before cos he has kids where as i havent and im a first time mum sometimes i feel hes just bored of me and its getting to stage i dont know what to do anymore

on the plus side my baby girl is a month old x

 

[FebMum2Be]

Well that's just not acceptable hun, no way should he be saying that you to, then having a go when you're confiding in someone about it, if he wasn't being such an arse you wouldn't need to speak to others I would ask him straight out, but that's just me xx

How the time flies Our LO's are born exactly a year apart by dates x

 

[Sol]

Could it be he's feeling left out. Hubby felt really left out and felt J liked me better than him. We sorted it out when I would gladly swap being up till 2am breast feeding )

 

[MummytoC]

It's very very hard on your relationship when you have a new baby. Me and OH certainly struggled. Give it some time hun, i'm sure it will get better x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Babies do strain relationships, especially for men as they are not getting our full attention. I agree with the other girls, he needs to tell you what the problem is xx

 

[scaredmum2be]

So because your nursing your baby and he goes mardy because he isnt getting attention from you. He needs to grow up its not all about him!
Bless ya if you feel like going out you go out after all its boring sitting in 24hours a day watching cbeebies or something and if you cant speak to your friend about it who can you speak to because by sounds of it hes not listening or bothering with you and its just not on and its up to you who you talk to.
I wish i could find a decent friend to speak to so that i could talk to someone i wouldnt care what OH says.
Was he ok with you when you was pregnant if so it could be the changes because theres not 2 of you now theres 3 an its very hard to keep man an baby sorted aint it hugs thinking of you x

 

[beany_baby]

Hun, its probably jealosy, me an my oh were very rocky when h was first born having a baby is a very stressful thing and it puts alot of pressure on a relationship, my oh got over that an found that gettin more involved with h was better, were now getting back on track, i think you need to sit him down, could you maybe suggest goin out just you and him?


Tapatalking it

 

[Amanda W]

well we talked and of course i ended up in tears and he said he dosent know where the relationship is going but we just left it alone and didnt talk about it again and we was fine back to normal but now because he works nights he works 10pm-6am monday to tuesday and then comes home and sleeps all day so of course iam doing night feeds-morring feeds-dinner feeds-night feeds again dont get me wrong love being a mummy best feeling ever but its like every friday night i ask him to have baby so i can get some much needed sleep and before i went for a bath and cos i didnt come down for a whille he came upstairs and shouted oi come on get up come down stairs and you can help me with the baby wtf i thought i told him i was shattered and he said same you can help me with baby i felt like saying well where the hell have u been all week ey i want him to do during the day but he wont and it feels like im doing the job im on my own with no help well not of him anyway my parents always say to me during the week come stay at ours and we can help u out wid baby as regarding sleeping wise because they know how tired iam