At my scan do u think....

[purplepants]

there is any way of them telling my hubby the sex but not me My hubby & mum really want to know but i dont think i do, do u think the sonographer could possibly write it down for my hubby or something so i dont have to find out or am i asking to much?

 

[Rock-Angel]

they could write it down put it in an envolope and let him open it at his convience cant see them saying no!

 

[outdoorchick]

I can't see why not! I am sure they'll do that for you if you ask nicely! Just make sure mum and hubby don't let the secret out in the next few months.

 

[Serendipity_]

Yeh, I think they'll do that........ Ohh all this scan talk is making me so excited

 

[splashmonkey]

I'm sure they'd be fine to do that - the question is do you trust your hubby not to let the cat out of the bag!

 

[purplepants]

Thanks girls, ive just had a chat with hubby and he's fine with that but says it will be really hard keeping a secret from me so lets hope the sonographer is ok with that.
I'm so exited now its been bothering me for a couple of weeks because i know how much hubby wants to know and i didnt want to let him down.

Woohoo exactly 5 weeks till i DONT find out the sex of my baby

 

[purplepants]

I'm sure they'd be fine to do that - the question is do you trust your hubby not to let the cat out of the bag!

He has promised to try but I wont mind to much if he makes a slip up, i could never be angry with him for something like that

 

[Frog99]

I think we should place bets on how many minutes it is before he slips up and refers to baby as him/her...

I'll start 3mins, 20secs....

 

[purplepants]

 

[splashmonkey]

I'll start 3mins, 20secs....

That long?

 

[Serendipity_]

... but is lying and even though its a boy, he's referring to him as a her That would be funny.

Or maybe I'm warped

 

[Snuggle]

If you're going to do that then have a chat beforehand and decide whether to refer to baby as him or her before scan so that he cant slip up

 

[splashmonkey]

Ooh now that's just cunning Snuggle!

 

[Snuggle]

Only problem there is if they decide to refer to baby as 'her' then he starts saying 'he', would be complete give away

 

[splashmonkey]

Hehehe yes I did think that, might be asking too much of a fella really...

 

[Snuggle]

They're just not that clever are they

 

[purplepants]

We are just refering to baby as "baby" or "little one" so will continue that

 

[dina.marie]

lol theres no way id trust my fella with that kinda info, he'd blatently let it slip as soon as we got in the car!!! lol luckily we both want to stay team green!

 

[rusks]

your OH and mum would have to be really controlled for the remainder of your pregnancy not to let that slip hun don't you reckon? also wouldn't you be gutted your mum or OH finding out before you? personally i would either agree one way or the other what to do else i can see you being disappointed.

also depends if you get a nice sonographer some of the ones i have encountered are right battleaxes but if you get a nice one im sure they love to join in the game!