Arghhh!! Need to rant...!!

[Levi89]

Ladies - no need for a reply just to let you know before I start rambling!

Anyway story goes - my hubby is in Norway working away just now, he's back on the 15th. I'm two weeks away from my due date and to be fair I have been trying to chill out, do bits in the house, anything I need has been getting ordered online etc - quite frankly because I'm actually so sore when I drive, have nothing that actually fits and tbh dont see the point in having to go anywhere right now.
BUT even after telling my in-laws how I feel, that I've also been unwell and my irons low so im constantly tired... Oh and the fact I'm flipping 38 weeks pregnant they STILL find the fucking need to tell me I should go down and visit them. Eh hello you dont live a 2 minute drive or walk! And all they want is how Greg is - not how I feel. Nosey basts! I'm actually so pissed off that I have to keep repeatedly telling them no that I'm considering ignoring them. I've had enough!!
Also on that note - G came home for a few days a couple of weeks ago and I actually couldnt say to his family because they want him there all the fucking time and I wouldnt have been able to speak to him. They actually make me fucking rage. I'm honestly gonna blow a fuse - and thats not a good thing. Arseholes!!!!!

 

[Levi89]

Oh and makes it worse that they dont even offer to come visit me - they all drive!! I dont want them in the house tbh but thats not the point. So fucking angry right now!!!

 

[JoJo79]

xx

 

[Levi89]

Thank you lol! I just wish my hubby was here xxx

 

[JoJo79]

I didnt actually reply as im not sure i have any advice for you!

Would your hubby speak to them and make them understand how you feel? Would they listen to him more?

Sorry not much use just wanted you to know someone has read this and thinking of you xxx

 

[tabbi]

really dont blame you for your rant or any of that, you have every right to be mad. and to just look forward to the birth of your baby x x x

 

[Levi89]

Hubby wont say much - they are such a pushy family its unreal! I mean I've said no to them but they just wont listen. Nosey basts thats all! I'm just gonna say my cars broke or something. Worst thing is - his gran has bought out pram, which we got a free car seat with - so as much as I am grateful and although i wanted us to buy it - she has basically held it hostage. She wont give us it till baby is here which means i dont know how to work the flamin thing, so i need to learn that with a newborn, and I cant leave the hospital without a car seat - which means I have to wait till she gives us it before I can leave. Awww im so mad!! Xxxxx

 

[steffy]

Ah hun, I know what its like to have problems with the in laws. We live 50m away from them on a farm and mil constantly ringing or calling by! Rang me at 30 weeks pregnant to tell me she had a bad knee and would I go look after her incase she fell over? I was like r u effin jokin, I can't pick you off the floor! Told her she was too much and she was to calm down before baby comes but she got way ott upset and now I look the bad one! Bonus is, I haven't seen her for 4 weeks! Haha
Guess what I'm sayin is just be careful they dnt make u out to be the bad one but most importantly u gotta do what is best for you and LO xx