Are we in the wrong? Should it effect us?

[Pricey589]

Hey guys, to cut a long story short...

My Mum got with someone and a while down the line Me and his Daughter got together...all cool right?

Well, my Mum married him and we can now be classed as Step Brother/Sister. Now this gets us weird reactions when people realise. And I get the piss taken out of me in work, lol.

Should this stop us being happy and wanting a baby? We're obviously not blood related.

I just really wanted to know if it really is a bad thing, we love eachother so much.

Thanks all,

Ryan.

 

[fran_23]

This happens loads and theres nothing illegal or wrong about it- i read in one of my crappy womens mag a few weeks ago about a couple just like you and they had a joint wedding with the mum and dad- at least you know you have the best in-laws don't listen to workmates taking the piss etc they will soon get bored they are probably just ribbing you for a laugh and think its a bit of fun- tell them to piss of anf ignore them- its your life and you should be able to be in love with who you choose- (well maybe not your real brother/sister ) but yeah good luck to you- stuff other ppl if you are happy!

its hard enough to find someone you truly love nowadays when someone does come along you should hold on tight
(sorry to be cheesy and cliche but you know its true) Best of luck to you both!!!

 

[Pricey589]

Thankyou so much fran, I guess I just needed to hear it from other people. Their not so bad in work, they just spread the word that im "shagging my sister" lol, damn the building trade!

But yeah, we really do want to get on with our lives and be happy.

 

[dannii87]

It happens a lot more than people realise! You can't help who you fall in love with I worked with a couple who's parents got together AFTER they did... I didn't think it was wierd at all

Reverse it, your Mum and her Dad (or vice versa) are in laws, do they feel wierd about it?! I'm sure they don't

In fact, I bet they are so pleased that their children found someone so special to them, double whammy, if she hurts you or you hurt her, you'll both have each other's parents to answer to!! Oh, and at least they won't be fighting a battle over "who's the closest grandparent to the baby"

I can't see how it would crop up in conversation that your parents are together? I'd just avoid bringing it up so that you don't have to deal with the childish crap your colleagues are throwing at you!

Don't let it affect you and your relationship with your OH!! It's so rare to find someone you share such a connection with so don't let it get you down

xx

 

[dannii87]

The only time I'd think it was wierd is if you and your OH were brought up together from a young age as brother & sister and that's not the case xx

 

[MagicMarkers]

I agree with Dannii if youd have grown up with her it might be different, but i actually think its not a big suprise that if your mum and dads get along, then you 2 are gunna too. Bugger work, im sure theyll get bored of it eventually, and if not this im sure theyd find something else to call ya !!

If you too are happy then bugger everyone else !!

 

[jodie_honey]

my mums mum and my dads dad got married to each other after my mum got married, when i was 6 months old lol if u are happy then theres nuthin wrong with it, happy times x

 

[Pricey589]

Thanks everyone, really eases things a bit better.

 

[lfc_sarah]

The only time I'd think it was wierd is if you and your OH were brought up together from a young age as brother & sister and that's not the case xx

I agree

If your happy forget about the jokes, theyll soon get bored

 

[Becky]

its hard enough to find someone you truly love nowadays when someone does come along you should hold on tight
(sorry to be cheesy and cliche but you know its true) Best of luck to you both!!!

Soooo true though!

If you're both happy and your families are happy then who cares that you're related through marriage!

Go for it and have a happy life together!

 

[EllieBelle]

But she is not really your sister in any shape or form, just happens her father and your mother got married, and then she becomes your "step" sister !

I wouldnt worry what anyone thinks, especially the people small minded enough to make such rude comments.

Life is far too short to worry what other people think, so just enjoy your life!!

 

[chickadee1976]

I think as long as you have not been brought up as brother and sister there shuldnt be a problem with it.

Ignore other peoples prejudices , if they dont want to see you happy they are not worth knowing

 

[Pricey589]

Thanks everyone. Appreciated.

They still crack em now and then (like today) but not as much.

 

[Xena]

I don't actually think that you're legally allowed to be with her, but personally I think it's fine. Can't see a problem with it.

 

[Pricey589]

Guys,please help me!

My GF just rang me and for some reason now, her mum has come out and said that she hates her for going to see her (real) dad, and because shes with me, it means she gets to see him, and said she wanted her to finish us.

I said are we going to be ok? She said I cant promise, its my Mum.

I feel heartbroken and I have to sort this out, and said we have to chat to her later as this is our happiness. What can I say?

We wanted everything together.

Please...

 

[mrs_tommo22]

I don't actually think that you're legally allowed to be with her, but personally I think it's fine. Can't see a problem with it.

Hows that right? There not blood related.