Hiya so we are trying for our second and I am finding it so so hard to find the energy and the time to BD. I mean we do it but I am knackered to be honest. Also more stressed from lack of sleep plus thinking of another making me feel also a little nervous like how I am going to cope with even more lack of sleep anyway its just very hard the second time around.
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Anyone TTC #2 and finding it hard
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It is hard 2nd time around but you find a way through. You just cope with less sleep and you do eventually get used to it. Its do worth it though. Dont put too much pressure to dtd too much. I only dtd twice on cd8 and cd11 and got my bfp just over a week ago. Start as you mean to go on....more relaxed xx
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I know exactly what you mean! How old is your little one?!!i have a 13 month old and currently pregnant with baby number 2 wondering how I am going to cope as it’s manic with just her she’s into everything! Xx
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I must be crazy ttc #3!
Mine are 12 and 6 thought so a big age gap lol!
I wish I'd done it closer together now though as I get to sleep through the night the other 2 are independent and now I want another to keep me up and needing 24/7 care... I think I'm crazy!
I am still tired dtd though. Although I have relaxed a lot this last month. X
Good luck hun x
Mine are 12 and 6 thought so a big age gap lol!
I wish I'd done it closer together now though as I get to sleep through the night the other 2 are independent and now I want another to keep me up and needing 24/7 care... I think I'm crazy!
I am still tired dtd though. Although I have relaxed a lot this last month. X
Good luck hun x
My daughter is 4 but she still wakes up at night and comes to bed with us and she is very active as well. It took us 4 years to take the courage the try for another. We are knackered at the end of the day that’s with one child. It really scares me to think how hard it would be with 2 but I am sure I would find a way to cope x
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My son is just under 17 months and is a massive handful. Its a struggle finding time to DTD so for the past few months I think only once was in our own bed ha. 
We do manage though and even though I worry how we will get on with two I put that to the back of my mind because I know we will!
My tip for DTD when you're not tired is to do it straight after you've put the little one to bed, even maybe before your own tea if you haven't had it yet. Don't wait until you go to bed and are too tired.
We do manage though and even though I worry how we will get on with two I put that to the back of my mind because I know we will!
My tip for DTD when you're not tired is to do it straight after you've put the little one to bed, even maybe before your own tea if you haven't had it yet. Don't wait until you go to bed and are too tired.
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Agree defo dtd after you've put little one to bed before tea and watching TV etc . We always end up falling asleep if we wait until after tea and TV etc lol OH often falls asleep on the sofa! Xx
