anybody feel as if they are becoming just a mum?

[hannahbet20]

i feel all the old stuff i used to do doesn't happen anymore, i used to read all the time watch movies go out cycle swimming gym etc none of that happens anymore no time and i cant think of all my favourite things except my babies and baby related things such as this forum

does anyone else feel like this?

 

[rusks]

i admit im getting a bit addicted to this forum for example i should be cleaning the bathroom or catching up e mailing my friends, but once i get on this forum i find it hard to get off, where does the time go!!

 

[amy]

yep im the same, ive cooked cleaned sorted kids and now im here, and it will be the same tomoz the next day and the next, think i might start going swimming, but then i find i dont have the time. oooooo i dont mind i will have my day one day, as long as the kids are happy.saying that i do have time out a couple of nights, just to let me hair down. xxxxxxx giving birth is easy, bringing them up is the hardest!!xxxxxxx

 

[violet-glow]

I know what you mean...

I find myself talking about my pregnancy and zack alot with friends and family. My friends are aged from 17 upwards and I doubt they really like hearing about zack and unborn all the time. But I feel thats all I am at the moment, just a mother. I hardly go out at all to meet friends etc because zack is becoming so much of a pain at the moment. Ive had days and days of tantrums sorry feeling sorry for myself now. lol

 

[hannahbet20]

don't worry i feel the same i had my first at 17 and my mum and dad are abroad lucky i have my oh to look after the sprogs if i want to go out but its not very often. all i talk about is my kids and im sure it gets on every ones nerves but i dont have anything else.
my little boys can be a pain lucky jakes growing out of the tantrum phase but kyes making up for it sometimes he can be a right little monster at first he was really jelous of molly but he seems to be getting used to her.

i hope you feel better soon we all need more me time i think

 

[Lou]

I can't remember what I did before I had Isaac? I must've been bored stupid lol

I still read when we go camping and when I go to bed some nights and I still have my music on in the day while I do housework and I've never been one for going to the gym or going out boozing so I'm not missing anything like that.

I think I was destined to be a mum

 

[Vicky]

i'm like you lou i can't remember what i did before i had Kacy, i know that we would of moved in to the place i'm living at the moment, thats about it.

 

[hannahbet20]

yeah i do love being a mum and i love talking about my kids because im so proud but thats what i mean i cant remember who i was before, my life has changed soo much im just all about the babies i still want more especially since ive been on this forum

 

[Lou]

I do know what you mean. I gave up working to fall pg and I really really miss having my own money and getting up for work and having a laugh with my friends away from Jarrod.

But when it was winter and I was all snuggled up warm and pg I used to look out the window at the bus stop in the morning and I was soooooo glad I didnt have to go to work! lol

Whatever your situation is you'll always want somethings diferent and its only natural to wonder what if?

If Isaac wasn't here I would probably be working. smoking, sleeping, working, smoking, sleeping......

Lou

 

[violet-glow]

If Isaac wasn't here I would probably be working. smoking, sleeping, working, smoking, sleeping......

Lou

Sounds like bliss to me lol! add some alcohol into that and it would be perfect hehe

 

[Lou]

If Isaac wasn't here I would probably be working. smoking, sleeping, working, smoking, sleeping......

Lou

Sounds like bliss to me lol! add some alcohol into that and it would be perfect hehe

or a tank or 2 of gas and air. Heaven!

 

[violet-glow]

If Isaac wasn't here I would probably be working. smoking, sleeping, working, smoking, sleeping......

Lou

Sounds like bliss to me lol! add some alcohol into that and it would be perfect hehe

or a tank or 2 of gas and air. Heaven!

hahahaha! Now your talking

Didnt they sell that in pubs for abit, but it didnt take off?

 

[kellie80]

This really hit home with me today when i was thinking what i could do for my birthday next week. All i want is for my mum to have the kids and have a cosy night in the have an early night and a lie in. Bliss! Sad i know. A few years ago i would of been planning a big night out and getting very drunk.

 

[violet-glow]

That sounds like a good plan kellie80. A bit of you time can do wonders.

 

[hannahbet20]

yeah what i would give to lay in untill 12 and get up and watch crap all day in my jimjams