any one else feel like this?

[little*red]

for the last few days ive just been thinking about our whole TTC situation, and i just have this overwhelming feeling that i wont ever get pregnant again. Its as if i think that we're just not lucky or good enough to have another child after being blessed with our daughter. i feel as if sometimes we are being selfish by hoping for another healthy child, because we already have a perfect child already. We are also hoping that we can have a little boy but it also seems as if we wouldnt be that lucky for it to happen to us.
does that sound crazy? does anyone else have these feelings?

 

[Bexter]

Awww, little*Red

Of course you are not selfish for wanting another child, i'm sure your time will come to get pg when it's right.

As for me, i just can't imagine myself as a mum or with a big pregnant belly - although saying that i couldn't imgaine myself getting married which i have.

 

[skairdykat]

I've been feeling like this since I came off the pill in January. Not that we're selfish for having another one but just that we will have somehow lost our fertility

You are definately not slfish hunnie

 

[AnnaR2B]

Don't be daft...everyone has the right to have as many children as they want or can have
I haven't any yet and TTC does get me down, but i'd never begrudge anyone else being happy..you go girl xxx

 

[muppetmummy]

I know what you mean little red. I've thought similar things. OH had chemotherapy for leukemia as a child and was always told it could possibly affect his fertility. We're worried that we were just incredibly lucky to have James and wouldn't be so lucky again.
I also sometimes feel bad when I see people who dont have any children getting upset about ttc. I feel like I'm being greedy wanting another one. I know deep down I'm being silly but I can't help thinking it sometimes.

 

[BabyDreams]

Oh no LittleRed (and mm)! That's certainly no sin in my book!
Big families are the best! I hope to have one myself one day. And you don't get big families w/o TTC more than once. You're not selfish at all!

I know you'd be equally thrilled if/when someone else gets a BFP (no matter if they already have children or not)...so it's all fair!

 

[jenna]

aww hun dont be silly, you deserve to have another perfect baby. It'll happen soon

 

[katyk]

I don't feel that I don't deserve it, but do get that doom-laden feeling that for some reason it's not to be But I hope we just get that from nerves/ wanting it so much that the mind tries to protect itself by preparing itself for a bad outcome.

If we try to keep optimistic, it supposedly increases our chances- hard to do sometimes though, I know.

 

[Babylicious]

 

[mrs_tommo22]

hugs little red, and dont panic you were blessed enough with a gorgeous daughter and im sure you will have a perfect little boy to xomplete your family soon enough.
You know it dont happen overnight, look at all the other ladies on here trying for yonks or still trying.