Any guidance please

[Allic77]

Ok so I know I am probably being neurotic but I am really confused. Partner and I have been TTC for nearly a year, we did fall pregnant back in January but found out at our 12 week scan that I had had a mmc from approx 7 weeks. I eventually miscarried at 13 weeks over Easter this year. I had a full normal period after the miscarriage at a 28 day cycle (I normally have AF at 26-28 days) this month however I have had brown discharge and spotting since day 18 (now day 25 and so far nothing today) this has been when wiping and sometimes only once or twice in the day (normally evenings) I am super tired, had cramps on day 1, feel very nauseous when I eat and have a headache every morning. Am I just testing too early still or should I be concerned? Oh I should say I have never had discharge before and that I am 40 years old.
Sorry for the long winded message just not sure what to make of it and panicking after the MC at Easter. Thanks

 

[MariaIsabella]

Hi Allic, so sorry for your mc and i hope you are ok. I know its hard.. Sounds good you had a normal cycle after your mc so seems like body recovered quickly. Regarding your spotting, what day did you ovulate? If you ovulate early perhaps it could be implantation bleeding.. have you done a preg test yet? Xx

 

[Sunflower1]

Sorry for your mc. You could be pregnant...I would test.

 

[Allic77]

Hi, not sure when I ovulated as we haven't been tracking this although based on last AF it should have been around the 6-11th May. I did a test on Friday and one yesterday and both came back negative. Nothing again so far today. Think I may just have to see if AF comes on Thursday.... Thanks for the responses so far

 

[Sunflower1]

Yes it's probably a case of waiting. Some women don't test positive for a while. I tested 5 days after AF was due when I got a BFP and it was very very faint.

 

[Allic77]

Thanks sunflower1 I have done a first response test tonight and that has come back negative and I'm starting to depress myself now so just going to wait and see if I get AF and even if I don't I may wait til the following week before I test again
Really want a positive but also frightened to get one after our last experience
Congratulations on your BFP though x

 

[Allic77]

well despite all the signs to the contrary I am now 6 days passed AF due date and every test included 2 first responses ones have come back negative. Looks like my body may still be readjusting after the MC at Easter. Will just have to see what this month brings and then take it from there. Gutted but hopefully we will get there eventually. Thanks for all the comments back and good luck to everyone else as well x