Any advice... Starting to worry a bit.

[linxminx21]

I'm on cd 35 atm. 5 days later than it should have been.
Normal cycles between 29 and 31. (more like 29 to 30)
Iv had spotting on and off for 4 days but only when I feel round cervix, its never been loads and always mixed with cm. Some days a small amount of fresh some days a small amount of dead blood.
Bfn since roughly 10dpo. (one month I didn't track ov this happens but ov normally falls between cd 16 and 19. 12 day lp.)
I don't know what to do. This never happens.
Do I wait a bit longer for af, do I go to drs?
I tested today and bfn still. Fmu.

With my son it didn't show on a pregnancy test until I was about 7 weeks but with my second it was 14dpo when I first tested and it was there. However I didn't spot with my son I don't think. I obviously wasn't feeling round cervix then.

My instinct is that im not pregnant and if I am it's in the wrong place.

 

[Princess81]

Are you sure of your ovulation day Hun? If there’s a hiccup anywhere it’s likely to be in the follicular phase x

 

[linxminx21]

I'm not sure of ovulation no, it's the one month I didn't chart I was having a break!
Last few months cycles in picture. And the other is my current cycle.
Do you think I should go to drs princess or will they fob me off?

 

[Princess81]

I honestly think they’ll say there’s nothing they can do at the moment and to observe and see what happens. It’s frustrating I know :-/
I guess if you have regular cycles then it does seem odd, but for me personally, spotting for a good few days is normal prior to AF. Were you stressed or ill mid-cycle as that could delay ovulation a bit. X

 

[Nikkibiscuit]

Hang in there this happened to me and I ended up having a totally random 37 day cycle. I think I had a chemical or bean that didn't stick as had never had cycle that long before. Although my cycles since have gotten a little longer....i was 28/29 day and last 4 months average is now up to more like 31/32.

Sending hugs your way...hang in there x

 

[linxminx21]

OK thankyou girls.
I was thinking a bean that isn't viable ect. Because my boobs got really veiny and they we're swollen, deflated a little when spotting started. I started getting heartburn about 10dpo (roughly)

 

[linxminx21]

I honestly think they’ll say there’s nothing they can do at the moment and to observe and see what happens. It’s frustrating I know :-/
I guess if you have regular cycles then it does seem odd, but for me personally, spotting for a good few days is normal prior to AF. Were you stressed or ill mid-cycle as that could delay ovulation a bit. X

Iv been getting a bit of a sore throat on an evening, then a bit of a cough like a cold is coming but Its never come to anything. And my mum is in hospital with a bad chest but even my dad dying never affected my period..
Maybe it's just one of those wacky cycles.

I said to oh that we couldn't book a holiday for October until I'd come on as baby be due if I was pregnant so I think the witch has thought well ill tease you then lol.
We booked the holiday today so af will probably come full force tomorrow just to be a cow lol

 

[Donna88]

It's horrible when our bodies do this isn't it.

When we weren't trying or thinking about trying I had 28 day cycles that I could set my clock to - I knew on the 29th day I would start with a little flow in the evening and then it would turn heavier the following day. Now I sometimes spot just before my period, sometimes it just starts and can range from 25 - 31 days (usually 28 or 29)

 

[Princess81]

Gah! Well I really hope it resolves soon. So frustrating when it’s so uncertain. is a for a reason x

 

[linxminx21]

She sure is. Thankyou for keeping me sane girls oh just says I'm sure your fine lol!
My periods are normally as the picture above. 36 days tomorrow and counting... Might see how long I can drag it out. Enjoy not having a period Lmao! Reverse psychology on that witch!

 

[Princess81]

Maybe some sex might help get it going? X

 

[Sunflower1]

I'd wait a few weeks then ask for a pregnancy blood test.

 

[Nikkibiscuit]

Second the sex idea....ususlly does the trick for me if I think the witch it loitering x

 

[linxminx21]

Yeah and me but oh is a total no go if anything is up there at all. And he knows I'm spotting lol!

 

[linxminx21]

My period has finally come a week late. I'm in a fair but of pain on my left side and it's making me a bit dizzy. I'll monitor it and see how it goes. But at least she's here!

 

[Princess81]

Playing tricks glad it’s arrived though x