Another rift cause by the MIL

[Kas]

Hi all i havent been on the past while, me and my OH split up due to things that were going on with my OHs son, His psyco ex and even more his MUM!!! Aaaaagh she cant butt out our lives at all, it all boiled up and yes indeed i gave MIL a huge mouthful and the SIL, well it cleared my chest but I left my OH as he was taking their side, that was two weeks ago and now i managed to come back, at my OHs request, He called our Engagement party and wedding off what a TWAT, he says coz i threw my ring in the garden. Think hel give me it back, when he thinks im worthly of it, love to see the face on him when I tell him to stick it where the sun dont shine, he rufused to help me financially when we split, partyly why im back. Dont see where the relationship is going ive lost all respect for him as it was him who told me to call his mum and say what I had to say, typical Gemini (no offence to Geminis) XkelX

 

[mary70]

sounds like a complete t##t hun i'm sure you could do better on your own and let the mother ans sil have him

 

[Strangeness]

Hun you shouldn't go back to him because you need help with money. He has to pay for his child whether he wants to or not. Also you can get help with money if you're on your own. If he sticks by his mum I would be out of there in a shot! You're the one he chose to be with, he didn't choose his mother so he should stick by you and your child. But seriously hun don't stay because of money, you can get money the stress isn't worth it.

 

[Tara & Liam]

Oh kas dont stay with him, once you loose respect it makes it hard. i wish you all the best. i cant believe he wont give you the ring back till he thinks youre worthy. what a to**er. youre worth a million of him

x

 

[Kas]

Thanks for you replys ladies, ive decided to give it my last go, gave him his character the other night he was none too pleased, but it had to be said, we gotta wipe the slate clean and start afresh. Ive decided to not involve myself with his side of the family as the negativity is wearin me down, she hasnt even called to ask to see kaiden and that was over 3 weeks but my OHs other son she was goin mad with his ex to see the other grandson. XKelX

 

[lauramumof2]

my OHs other son she was goin mad with his ex to see the other grandson. XKelX

So she has the interfering bat to herself, lucky her. This sounds like a person you dont need in your life.

 

[Tara & Liam]

i second that laura, well put.

 

[Kas]

I know shes thinks il give in to her and allow her to wangle her way in, it aint the 1st time but when ppl start taking the piss its time to cut them out yer life, if she has no respect for me she never will, and i aint having her fillin my sons head with mince the same as she does her other grandson XKelX