am i sad

[Sarah&Braydon]

i was just taliking to my'mate' and she is gettin ready to go down the pub!! she sed shell be there till it closes - i dont even know wot time that is lol! and wen i sed hrite ill be in bed at 10.30 she laughed and sed i need a man/life!!

i am happy with my lil man not goin out at nite gettin drunk etc does this make me sad??

 

[hels]

Not at all hun, it makes you a fab mummy!!!
She'll probably have a rubbish night, she'll spend all her money, and wake up with a head ache, you can wake up to B smiling and laughing! I know what id rather do! you have a life hun.

 

[emilia]

Your pal is the one that needs a "Life"... You've got a perfect life! (once you're rid of toe-rag G!! )
Love what you have.
Emilia xx

 

[Rachael]

You don't need to drown your sorrows down the pub - You've lots in your life to be happy about! Your not sad at all! ( If that makes you sad, I think there are a lot of us on here who are sad too! )

 

[hayley_17]

you're not sad hun!! you're a great mummy 2 B & you dont need 2 go out 2 the pub getting drunk 2 have a good time... u have B

 

[Jaidy]

No way Sarah, you prob have a way better life than she has. People say to me, so called 'mates' that im too young to have a baby and il never be able to go out, get drunk etc, etc, but who cares I have a gorgeous fiance and i want a gorgeous baby to top it off whats so bad about that? Most people who say things like that are jealous girl, so dont worry at all

 

[lucylou]

Not at all, there's nothing better then being snuggled up on your sofa at home and an early night! You've got your gorgeous little man B, what more do you need! x

 

[Rosieroo]

Nope it makes you a responsible, happy, contented mummy who doesn't need to waste her cash on booze

 

Definately not sad hunnie! When my 'friends' (who I had before I had Damien) ask what I have been up to, I smile and say 'just being mummy', and then they come out with tales of drinking, shagging around etc, it makes me realise what I am certainly NOT missing! You're doing a fab job so keep it up girlie. I still enjoy an occasional night out but to be honest I am happy being a mum, and Braydon is so lucky to have a mum which loves spending all her time with him

 

[minikins]

Your pal is the one that needs a "Life"... You've got a perfect life! (once you're rid of toe-rag G!! )
Love what you have.
Emilia xx

Couldn't have said it better myself. Going to the pub all the time can be fun, sure, but after a while it gets boring, you are broke, drinking too much and you feel empty and wanting more in your life, she will feel that one day.

I would say bring up bambino's is more fulfilling than going down the pub

 

[*saulino*]

Hi Sarah

your not sad, your a great mom and they go out but everyones right i knwo its fun at first but not worth the feeling the morning after and at elats we wake up to our babies all smiling and happy.
Katrina