Am I in risk?

[katia28]

Hello to everyone here! I am new in this forum and I want your advice...

First a few words about me. I am 28 years old, healthy (normal weight), with most of teh times steady period 28-30 days cycle.

I have a long term relationship , and we do not use contraception with my boyfriend. We use the withdrawal method (but it is not a proper method such as condom or oral contraceptives).

This month during my ovulation time, we had intercourse, and he 'came' on my vulva (all area and the opening). I did not wash immediately but after 15-20 minutes since there was more sex after but not intercourse.

I was waiting my period to come on last Sunday. I have some symptoms such as nausea ( just a bit), some breast pain but not as much as it hearts normally before period, I also get cramps in the lower part of my belly, some diziness, but no period yet.

Tomorrow I will try a home pregnancy test. I know that this is teh first thing I shoud do.

But do you think that there is a chance of pregnancy? Is it risky if teh vulva comes in contact with sperm in the outside area but not inside?

 

[cassi]

If there was more sex and it went all over there is a chance that some got inside...if i were you i would get a pregnancy test its the only way to be sure we cant tell you if you are pregnant or not but if you dont want a baby yet il suggest not using withdrawl as a course of contraception but i guess you have realised that now

would it be a good or bad thing?

hope things turn out ok x

 

[Londoner Claire]

I take it you would both like to have a baby as you don't use protection?

Good luck with the test tomorrow anyway, hope you get the result you want.

 

[katia28]

thank you all for your answers,... i did the test, it is negative...the next day i got my period... the truth is, we would like to have a baby but maybe in a year , or a year and a half...
when i saw that it was negative i felt relieved but unhappy as well...what a strange feeling....we didn't plan it, i got stressed, it didn't came, felt relief but also felt dissappointed (maybe i want it more than i think afterall, or maybe i want him more than i think) ...i don't know i am confused..


anyways, thank you all, and hope you and your families ar all well in health!