cosmicgirl
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We all make mistakes loopy, see it as a lesson learnt x
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Affairs
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Affairs happen when your not 100% happy or you feel like something is missing you might not realise it at the time.
I don't think anyone can say they never would because you just don't know.
I have never had one nor could I imagine ever having one on my husband but that is just based on me being totally happy and content with my life. I would like to think if I wasn't happy we could talk it out and if not go our separate ways without tearing strips Out of each other.
I do understand why they happen it's just sad it has to come to that x
I don't think anyone can say they never would because you just don't know.
I have never had one nor could I imagine ever having one on my husband but that is just based on me being totally happy and content with my life. I would like to think if I wasn't happy we could talk it out and if not go our separate ways without tearing strips Out of each other.
I do understand why they happen it's just sad it has to come to that x
LikeJohnnYoko
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I have, before I got married, with an ex. The relationship itself had been over for years, but I had no ability to leave for financial and support reasons.
I can categorically say I would never do it again - the things I lost in the process weren't worth the waiting to tell my ex we were over. The worst thing I found with it was that it steals your trust in your fellow humans. Once you've lied/hid cheating, especially successfully it makes you think that actually, if you can lie and cheat then any other human around you can to. It steals your peace of mind.
That's my biggest regret, that it caused me to lose faith in people on that level. I wish I'd had the strength to do things in the right order, it wasn't even two weeks mind you!
I would never cheat on my husband, I do my upmost to uphold my vows I made on my wedding day. I would never put him through that and I would never do that to myself again.
It is sad, but I think affairs tend to come from a point in a relationship where there is a lack of communication and feeling connected, a breakdown of that in the face of a friendship with someone else that is still communicative.
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I used to work for an engineering company and a lot of the engineers would have affairs when they were away on jobs (they would be away 6-12 weeks at a time) I felt sorry for their wives/partners. Wish I could have said something but wasn't my place.
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Iv never cheated on anyone. Iv been cheated on. And iv also been with a guy who had a girlfriend, a very stupid drunken mistake.
I'd never cheat on my partner. I think if you feel the need to cheat then the relationship is over.
I have a friend that has cheated on every partner she has had, and it's quite sad, it's clearly an attention thing on her part.
I'd never cheat on my partner. I think if you feel the need to cheat then the relationship is over.
I have a friend that has cheated on every partner she has had, and it's quite sad, it's clearly an attention thing on her part.
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Ive seen someone who had a girlfriend but he told me it wasn't serious and that he never really saw her - lies. I wasn't with anyone at the time.
I know one girl that lives near me that is the biggest home wrecker going!
She had an affair with her boss at work, split him and his wife up and then she shacked up with his brother, he too split up from his wife, broke the relationship between him and his brother and ruined the relationship which involved children in it.
This was all while she was in a relationship!!
Her boyfriend then stupidly took her back and then caught her texting a man who she was working with and she has now ended up with that man causing him to break up from his fiancé of 10 years and cause her to have a mental breakdown.
If she wasn't such a poisonous person i would actually feel sorry for her. She must be very unhappy to feel the need to destroy other people's happiness. I refuse to talk or even acknowledge her. Once is a mistake but twice and more is done on purpose.
OHs friend went and slept and met up with a girl a few times before his girlfriend was due to give birth to their baby. He also told OH that he had slept with another girl earlier on in the pregnancy. The GF knows nothing of this and he works away so I wouldn't be surprised if he hasn't slept with more while he has been away from home. He is a huge slime ball!!
I know one girl that lives near me that is the biggest home wrecker going!
She had an affair with her boss at work, split him and his wife up and then she shacked up with his brother, he too split up from his wife, broke the relationship between him and his brother and ruined the relationship which involved children in it.
This was all while she was in a relationship!!
Her boyfriend then stupidly took her back and then caught her texting a man who she was working with and she has now ended up with that man causing him to break up from his fiancé of 10 years and cause her to have a mental breakdown.
If she wasn't such a poisonous person i would actually feel sorry for her. She must be very unhappy to feel the need to destroy other people's happiness. I refuse to talk or even acknowledge her. Once is a mistake but twice and more is done on purpose.
OHs friend went and slept and met up with a girl a few times before his girlfriend was due to give birth to their baby. He also told OH that he had slept with another girl earlier on in the pregnancy. The GF knows nothing of this and he works away so I wouldn't be surprised if he hasn't slept with more while he has been away from home. He is a huge slime ball!!
