Advice please?

[Bex7]

Me again!
If you have seen my previous posts you'll knownim due to go to my local epu again on the 22nd to check the viability of my pregnancy and I really feel like I need to tell someone what I'm going through. I'm 24 and still live between my parents and my bfs parents and not particularly close to my mum but I really want to tell her hats going on. My bf isn't being very supportive, hasn't been to any apps with me, doesn't mention anything and is overal quite negetive about it as this wasn't planned. I havnt told anyone apart from him so I'm just desperate for aomething positive

I don't know wether to tell my mum after the 22nd whatever the outcome and just get it off my chest now, but I don't know if I can handle any more negativity

Any advice ladies? X

 

[xelliex]

Hey Hun,

I know exactly how you are feeling! Don't know if you have read my story but I'm the same age and have a rather unsupportive "bf" family, friends ect. I've known I am pregnant for a few weeks now and have still yet to have my very 1st congrats face to face (if you want a recap just pm me . Everyone I have turned to has been so negative to the point where it's just reduced me to tears. So I'm trying to be strong and do the best I can on my own. It's hard because you know this is not how you imagined the 1st tri of your pregnancy. How far along are you hun and where u based?

This forum is great and all the lovely girlies are so supportive. If you need to talk I'm here! Xxxxx

 

[SunnySue]

Sorry you are being met with negativity with what should be such a joyous time. I wouldn't tell your Mum until you are completely ready to face whatever she may throw at you, you need to be mentally strong enough to stand up for yourself. If that happens to be after your appoinemnt the great, if it is not for another 4 weeks so be it. Good luck when you do tell her, I hope she is more supportive than you think

 

[newbie1984]

Sorry to hear this also. I'm 28, had been with my boyfriend 2 months when I fell pregnant by accident. Only now at 13 and however many days later is he finally accepting it properly. He will get there it's just a huge shock that his life will never be the same again.

 

[Bex7]

Thank you girls!

I've been with my bf for over 3 years and Im shocked he's being like this to be honest! Everything he is saying is in a negetive way, but he's beating roun the bush and not saying things directly! Or it's all about money! As for my mum she keeps asking if something's up but I just can't say the words for some reason, I know she will focus on the negatives too

I want to tell a friend but not until I've had my scan on the 22nd which seems years away!

Xx

 

[Asd1]

Sounds like you are having a really stressful time I'm the same age as you and I'm yet to tell my parents aswell it does make me nervous still even tho iv been with my oh for 5 years and we have our own house together I still get afraid because like yours, my pregnancy wasn't planned but I keep reminding myself that when my mum was my age she had already been married and divorced and was living with my dad and pregnant with my sister! At the end of the day you are old enough to make decisions for yourself and it's your body that will be effected so really they have no right to be negative at all!