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[beth3735]

I just had the worse sex ever Well it wasn't nothing to do with my hubby i just really could not relax.
I have had spotting for 5 weeks now and havent had sex since the 10th of June because of this.

Me and my hubby had continuous sex with both my girls pregs up until the night i went into labour.
I am just so scared that it will bring on a miscarrige

Does anyone else feel really uncomfy having sex. I have put it off for so long but my need got the better of me

I have told him once i have my 12 week scan it will return to normal But im so scared about baby that if it happened it might become a thing of blaming hubby

Anyway sorry if i dont make sense just needed to see if anyone else is worried about sex

 

[okiegirl]

hi,
i feel the same as u,i am also worried and have banned hubby untill after the scan. luckily he is very understanding andi do feel a bit guilty sometimes but at the end of the day ur baby kept safe is more important than any sex as far as i'm concerned!

 

[beth3735]

Hubby has been great, He has said no for all this time. Maybe i should control myself more

I will leave it for a while again now, I should hopefully get my scan date around beginning of August so not much longer to wait

 

[rachie29]

i've just not felt like it... have been quite ill with m/s and i think thats put OH off too..

service has now been resumed (thank god)

 

[mum2be?]

I feel the same ,

I only found out thursday i am PG & started spotting friday, sat & today so i dont think i will be having S*x until after 12 weeks as i am so scared i will misscarry

 

[NIE]

I went off sex when I started spotting at weeks 7 & 8. I am still the same. Hubby has been great. To be honest I think he is a bit scared too. xxx

 

[Gem & Leland]

i havent had sex since the week i concieved , im so scared and soooooooo dont feel like it i now seriously have zero libido !

 

[paradysso]

our sex hasnt changed at all. but if i ever dont fancy it hes very understanding luckily.

 

[youngmumtobe20]

hiya, ive was the same early on, i had spotting at about 8 weeks and just didnt wana have sex for as couple of weeks after, OH was hating it, but i just cudnt relax! and it was really uncomfortable so didnt enjoy it, dont think it helped that i felt like crap tho either lol. its better now tho, one week til my scan...hopefully all will b fine then sex life will get a bit better cos i wont b so worried