A bit upset this afternoon :(

[Baileysmummy]

My boys have just gone with there nanny to nursery..

but prior to that at 11.50am the tantrums started with cameron all because he didnt want to eat!

I feel like he only does it to wind me up as he gets to go to nannys house on a weekend, so i text my mum and said he wasnt going blah blah and he needs to learn im his mum and not my mum if you know what i mean..

I got so upset with myself my mum was quite worried i was going to make myself ill...

i honestly feel like cameron wants to be with my mum more than me..

 

[frangelle]

When my sons in a moody, he always tells me he wants to live with grandma and wants a new mummy. I just say 'I'll go and pack my stuff then' and he's like 'sorry mummy'!!!

He's probably just doing it to upset you and get his own way hun. Kieran does it all the time. Just don't let it get to you and don't give into him. I know its not very nice

Hope you feel better soon babs

 

[libs]

Yip we've all been there...of course my son would rather be at Nan's or great nans, especially when he was little..they have a lot more cakes, sweets and freedom to misbehave there...
Don't worry about it - they grow out of it where they want their friends and freedom and suddenly Mum's house is a lot cooler again.

Sure your Mum understands - she's been there too.

 

[mum2be?]

Im sure he loves to be with you hunny,

Its prob the hormones making you fel like this

chin up

 

[Baileysmummy]

so im not the only one then..

has made me feel better but im sat here sobbing and i cant help it.. my mum said he does it at her house as well when they tell him off, he says he wants mummy or daddy,

So upsets me to hear he wants to be elsewhere rather than me...

sorry i'll shut up now

 

[mum2be?]

hunny if you wanna chat pm me,

 

[libs]

Don't worry now....worry when they get to 13 and declare they're staying at home when they go to Uni to save money...

oh yeah they love you then alright when it means more spending money for beer

Seriously ALL children go through this phase of "I want (whoever isn't there)" They're learning to control the world around them, that's all. Next time offer to pack his bags with him..they generally stop then

 

[Baileysmummy]

hunny if you wanna chat pm me,

Im gonna turn comp off hun, i cant see got myself in a state here, god im so stupid some times!

But thank you for the offer, i will pm you later when i have calmed down!

 

[frangelle]

Don't worry now....worry when they get to 13 and declare they're staying at home when they go to Uni to save money...

oh yeah they love you then alright when it means more spending money for beer

Seriously ALL children go through this phase of "I want (whoever isn't there)" They're learning to control the world around them, that's all. Next time offer to pack his bags with him..they generally stop then

Thats what i do with Kieran. Last year he told me he was going to put some pants in his spiderman backpack and leave

 

[Urchin]

I'm sure my 2 both prefer being at my moms, they get constant attention and are spoiled rotten, that's what nanny's house is all about, it's very normal.

 

[jools221181]

hope you're feeling better hun

 

[mishm]

Dont worry about it hun its not just you my 2 both like to go to there grans because they get to eat drink and do what they want thats the reason they like it better so just try not to let it stress you out hun

 

[hannahbet20]

my eldest tells me he doesnt like me anymore if i tell him off i just laugh, kids do this hun hes testing his boundries ignore him if he says it again