5 weeks and pains

[vic82]

Hi,

This is my first post and probably the first of many!

I have just found out I'm pregnant with my first baby. I am approx 5 weeks. I have pcos and my cycle is all over the place. I've always been told that there is little chance of me getting pregnant without Clomid. I was in a 5 year r'ship and didn't conceive.

I've just split up from my boyfriend and found out I'm pregnant. He's in shock. It is a miracle.

I have been having pains in my lower tummy, some shooting pain up inside and feeling like I've butterflies. Hospital won't do a scan. Everyone is saying its settling pains and things changing down there, I'm just so worried.

Sorry to rant a bit, I'm an emotional wreck xx

 

[ashleighlouise]

Don't panic. I am 6 weeks and still getting mild period like pains. It's just everything sorting itself out. unless you have any bleeding then it isn't a cause for concern. Do you have a early pregnancy assessment ward where you live? Give them a call they may be able to scan you earlier to make sure everything is ok. xx

 

[vic82]

Thank you. Congratulations to you xxxx

We have an Early Pregnancy Clinic at the hospital, I'm seeing my GP today and asking for a scan asap but as far as I know going by a midwife from the Hospital, they will not scan until around week 7.
They said that they might not pick anything up and won't detect a heartbeat until then so its just their policy. I'm just worried sick.

Tests still all positive, no bleeding and I feel dreadful so all good signs x

 

[Chriscs]

I went to the doctors today and she said period like pains are normal and only to get worried if they get worse or if there is bleeding.

Good luck

 

[vic82]

I had very light bleeding today for a couple of hours, not enough to stain if you know what I mean. I've been a total wreck. I have an appointment tomorrow with the EPAU, they will not scan as they will see nothing I was told but getting my blood test and another 2 days later to see if the hormone is raising or decreasing.

I am so upset x

 

[Chriscs]

I had very light bleeding today for a couple of hours, not enough to stain if you know what I mean. I've been a total wreck. I have an appointment tomorrow with the EPAU, they will not scan as they will see nothing I was told but getting my blood test and another 2 days later to see if the hormone is raising or decreasing.

I am so upset x

Fingers crossed that everything is ok

 

[vic82]

Thank you xx

Scan, as suspected showed nothing because its so early. I had bloods done and back on Thursday for same again. I will know whats going on by that afternoon if the hormone has increased.

I feel different today. I don't feel as sick, don't feel pregnant. I think maybe some of my sickness was anxiety that the worst might happen and now it has the anxiety isn't as bad. I'm being realistic, its so early and I'm still having slight pains, not just as bad but no bleeding.

Father to be is as supportive as a chocolate tea pot. He's not even asked how today went. I have sent his a very blunt, straight to the point text saying I am disgusted and to get his head out of his backside. He didn't even come to see me yesterday when I was bleeding and a wreck. Thos whole 6 miles to drive must be too much. I don't care if he's a scared little boy, he's nearly middle aged, I'm the one having his baby and worrying myself sick. I'm angry.

I wish it was Thursday so I could know what was happening and then I'd be more positive, then the next mile stone will be seeing something, anything at all on the scan. My emotions are all over the place x

 

[BabysMomma]

Aww hunnie, I hope that everything will be okay. x

 

[vic82]

Thanks everyone xx

I said to my Mum today that if this isn't good news in the next while then I'll never be having kids. I can't cope with this heartbreak