20 week scan

[charlene09]

As most of you already know I found out at 15w6d that I am having another bundle.

now all this week I have been worrying because people have been saying to me "I still think you are having a girl", Originally I did want a girl but I suppose you can't pick and choose you get what you are given and either like it or lump it.

I haven't bought anything for Cabhan yet apart from a 3 piece set and a little outfit so all in all I have spent £6 as my Grandma got him the 3 piece set, I am now concerned though that when I go for my NHS scan next friday that I am going to get told I am having a bundle.

What would you do? I'd be so disheartened as I am so used to having a boy now and well and truly in love with he's name

P.S Lynette if you are reading this you will know what I mean about wording things hahaha

 

[kra0]

Lol I don't think there's anything wrong with how u word things! My 20 week scan in next wed and m goin to find out the sex but even when I find out I think I'll always wonder if it's right or not! I know a few people who were told the wrong sex xxxx

 

[charlene09]

Lol I don't think there's anything wrong with how u word things! My 20 week scan in next wed and m goin to find out the sex but even when I find out I think I'll always wonder if it's right or not! I know a few people who were told the wrong sex xxxx

I had a 4D scan at 15w6d though and they did tell me that it wouldn't be 100% right, i'm just scared incase it wasn't right because not only will i be upset I would have wasted £89

 

[kra0]

Do 4d ones not have more a chance of being right cos they're clearer if you know what I mean? And look back at my last post there lol there's a few spelling mistakes in it ha u aren't the only 1 xxxx

 

[charlene09]

Do 4d ones not have more a chance of being right cos they're clearer if you know what I mean? And look back at my last post there lol there's a few spelling mistakes in it ha u aren't the only 1 xxxx

Yes they do have more chance of being right but the thing is, when the sonographer told me i was having a boy and shown me in 4D there were just balls or what looked like a chubby flu too :/ haha

 

[kra0]

Lmao a chubby flu. At least u had the 4d experience though I'd love one but we can't afford it xxxx

 

[charlene09]

Lmao a chubby flu. At least u had the 4d experience though I'd love one but we can't afford it xxxx

O don't worry about 4D scans. I had mine too early Cabhan just looked like a blob of playdoe cos he was so small
I couldn't afford it either hun, I sold my blackberry to pay for my scan

 

[kra0]

I've an old iPhone floating round, might sell that lol but I can't justify using any money on an extra scan at the min, especially when I can use it to buy stuff for them like clothes. And the cheapest one I could find over here is £119 :/ xxxx

 

[charlene09]

I've an old iPhone floating round, might sell that lol but I can't justify using any money on an extra scan at the min, especially when I can use it to buy stuff for them like clothes. And the cheapest one I could find over here is £119 :/ xxxx

Where abouts you live? Thats quite pricey

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[kra0]

Northern Ireland, that's the cheapest I could find! Xxxx

 

[charlene09]

O that explains it then lol! Im visiting carrickmacross , co.monaghan in may family live there

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[kra0]

I have lots of family in Monaghan it's about an hour and 30 mins from me though lol xxxx

 

[Loula]

I know what you mean, i was convinced i was having a blue bundle and so was alot fo people then at 20 weeks i was told i was having a girl which was a shock as family were saying can see you coping better with a boy etc etc....
Still theres a littkle doubt in my mind specially when people say are you sure its not a boy your very neat... Its frusrating..
Hope you get the news you want xxx

 

[maybe baby]

Hi Charlene, I've got good winky shots and I still have the same worry and I've bought loads of clothes!!

They actually say 2d is better than 3d for gender so the nhs one should be fine.

I had a 3d gender scan for £50 in the northwest at reassure 3d if you decide you want one in the future, they were really nice!

Good luck for your scan.

Xx

 

[charlene09]

Hi Charlene, I've got good winky shots and I still have the same worry and I've bought loads of clothes!!

They actually say 2d is better than 3d for gender so the nhs one should be fine.

I had a 3d gender scan for £50 in the northwest at reassure 3d if you decide you want one in the future, they were really nice!

Good luck for your scan.

Xx

I have already had a 3D one done is there any chance it can be wrong? Think I just still cant get over im having another boy more than anything haha

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[maybe baby]

Let's see your piccys...

Xx

 

[tinkerbell86]

I've been told by so many people about wrong gender scans I've decided not to buy much anyway!!! Not just one way either! Apparently my friend has a friend who got told a boy and ended up being born a girl after a 3d scan as well as an Nhs one but they're explanation was the cord was probably what they mistook for boy bits!!!

 

[charlene09]

They are the pics..

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[babyem]

Awww lovely pics

When we went for a scan on wednesday, the consultant who was doing it said not to go overboard on pink, as a woman had given birth to a boy this week after being told it was going to be a girl and had spent a fortune on pink clothes etc etc.

I think that we're going to just stay fairly neutral and buy a few little girly bits. That way, if she does turn out to be a he, it won't be any big loss.

 

[cosmicgirl]

I think if you've seen a shot of willy and balls then thats fairly conclusive. I wouldnt be too worried to be honest x