Well I have just been to see my O.B for my weekly check up and told her that I was feeling sorry for myself with having a cold and cankles the size of baby elephants and that I have been feeling twingy all weekend. She advised that she did an internal to check my cervix and then shocked me by saying that my cervix was nice and soft and starting to open up at 1 cm. I asked what that meant and she basically would not commit to anything and just said that I had better prepare myself as it could happen at any time, but not to get my hopes up as equally could take anyther 2 weeks!! Anyone ever experience this with a second child? and if so, realistically how long should it take for the onset of labour once the cervix begins to dialate?!