wishing the next 7 weeks will hurry up!!!!!!!!!

dina.marie

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god i really need to chill out..i keep getting this 'feeling' that ive started to bleed and run to the loo in a mad frenzy to check like 10 times a day and its really doing my head in now. every little niggle and twinge i think something is going wrong. someone please just slap me!!! i wish i could just go to sleep for the next 7 weeks then wake up and everything be ok :(
 
I'm right there with you Dina! Just waiting for something bad to happen! I'm due 15th August 2009 - we can't be far apart.
 
i felt the same this time, i didnt start to relax abit till i could feel baby move and id got past 19 weeks as thats when i m/c
 
I can totally understand how you feel hun. I'm in two minds about getting pregnant again. We really want to have children but I can see the first few months being so hard.
Sometimes I think knowing as much as we do about our bodies makes it all the much harder when you get pregnant, especially when you know almost the week after conception then have to wait weeks and weeks until your scan. I'm sure it was much simpler when we were completely ignorant and suddenly realised after we'd missed a couple of periods that we were pregnant!
 
Ms Perkins said:
I'm right there with you Dina! Just waiting for something bad to happen! I'm due 15th August 2009 - we can't be far apart.
my calculater said 14th august! so yeh we're definately not far apart.

the days are going by so slowly at the mo, it doesnt help that this is all i can think about. i woke myself up this morning having a nightmare that i was m/c'ing again. deep inside i have a better feeling about this one but its so hard not to worry. i honestly dont know how i will cope if i lose this baby aswell.
 
This is exactly the reason why I don't want to find out I'm pregnant again until as late as possbile. I had a MMC. Found out at my 12 week scan last Tuesday that baby had died at 7+2. When we were TTC this time (with our first child), I was constantly obsessing, running to the toilet every 5 minutes to check I wasn't bleeding and everytime I read on a forum about someone bleeding when they were pregnant, I was wondering when it would be my turn. I'm determined this time won't be like that and I will try and relax.

Try not to worry too much (a lot easier said than done, I know). As long as you are looking after yourself, there is nothing to say you will miscarry again. Good luck and I hope that everything goes perfectly for you xxx
 
dina.marie said:
the days are going by so slowly at the mo, it doesnt help that this is all i can think about. i woke myself up this morning having a nightmare that i was m/c'ing again. deep inside i have a better feeling about this one but its so hard not to worry. i honestly dont know how i will cope if i lose this baby aswell.

I've been the same, the dreams, the feelings that i've started to bleed all of the time.
The last week or so has gone a bit quicker with all the christmas stuff I just wish I could go to sleep and just let the baby do its thing that way I know I won't do anything to mess it up (thats how it sounds in my head anyways)
:hug: just try and keep hold of the better feeling that you have i think xx
 
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: I can only give you hugs hun and hope it goes quickly for you and everyone who is on the 1st Tri wait, i know how hard it is but you really do need to try to relax or you will drive yourself mad :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 

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