Well, I've come a long way since i started TTC

[Cori]

Here I am a couple of days off ovulating and I'm getting drunk! I'm not even gonna care what I lift at work during the week before I find out if I'm pregnant. Am I being stupid or am I doing the right thing? I'm just fed up with living my life as if I could be pregnant all the time. I mean, I might not even get pregnant for years and I just can't carry on like I was doing. If I'd have had a miscarriage, I might be different, but as it is I think I will just carry on as normal until I find out that I am pregnant for definite. What do you reckon?

 

[trixipaws]

neither of my pregnancies were planned, so both times i was just carrying on as normal- and iv got one child and had one m/c so it's 50/50 in my experience!

i must admit tho, it was my first pregnancy i was living most dangerously with, i was doing REALLY bad things NO pregnant woman should be doing not that that means thats ok! i was probably extremely lucky. but i definately dont think lifting things makes any difference, nor the odd drink.

 

[Cori]

Yeah, I suppeose your right. I just cant be arsed nayomre living my life as if i am pregnant all the time just incase i am. i only drink on fridays and saturdays when i know im not pregnat even if its a day before i ovulate but before i wouldnt ben drink at all thoughout the month so hopefully if im more relaxed about the whole thing it might happen

 

[lmrcpr]

good luck hun, i alternate between been oversestavive between af and ov and carriing on as noraml ad nether had made a differance but hopefully it will for you and you wil get your bfp. xx (sorry for typing - you can tell i'm trying the "carry on as noramll route" this month)

 

[Cori]

Lol i was gonna say. think i made a few typos myself too lol. thank you!

 

[Lorna]

Good luck hun.

I think the baby is pretty well protected in the first few weeks, plus you never know if you relax a bit it may happen sooner

 

[SpaceAngel]

I always carry on as normal. I have had 4 pregnancies, 3 children and 1 m/c. I found out I was pg with all of them at 4 weeks, and obviously I stopped smoking and drinking straight away. I am for carrying on as normal and letting nature take its course.