Shepherdess
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Not quite sure to, post this but I'm after a bit of advice
Back story. My partner and I have been together for about 12 years. We have one daughter. My oh has two brothers, both younger. One got married last year to a girl who I get on great with, he'd been with her for four years or so. The other has been with his girlfriend for a few months. Tbh he changes girlfriends a bit but that's not really my business and he's young so it's not a problem
Any way my oh and I are getting married this spring. I'm curious in the etiquette of family photos.
At the wedding last year family photos included the bride groom oh's parents and the boy's. Not me not my daughter and tbh I was quite miffed that we weren't included. I could kind of see that I wasn't actually married to oh at the time but we'd been together a lot longer and I was mainly upset my daughter wasn't included in family pics. Other brother and his gf had only been together a short while so I wasn't surprised she wasn't in them
As for my Wedding, youngest brother is now with a different girl who I barely know and I feel like if he dumps her I'd have regretted having her in the family pics but at the same time she might be the one and they might be together forever and I'd hate to make anyone feel the way my sil made me feel by not including me. Do I do pics without both girls? Or with everyone? What would etiquette dictate?
Back story. My partner and I have been together for about 12 years. We have one daughter. My oh has two brothers, both younger. One got married last year to a girl who I get on great with, he'd been with her for four years or so. The other has been with his girlfriend for a few months. Tbh he changes girlfriends a bit but that's not really my business and he's young so it's not a problem
Any way my oh and I are getting married this spring. I'm curious in the etiquette of family photos.
At the wedding last year family photos included the bride groom oh's parents and the boy's. Not me not my daughter and tbh I was quite miffed that we weren't included. I could kind of see that I wasn't actually married to oh at the time but we'd been together a lot longer and I was mainly upset my daughter wasn't included in family pics. Other brother and his gf had only been together a short while so I wasn't surprised she wasn't in them
As for my Wedding, youngest brother is now with a different girl who I barely know and I feel like if he dumps her I'd have regretted having her in the family pics but at the same time she might be the one and they might be together forever and I'd hate to make anyone feel the way my sil made me feel by not including me. Do I do pics without both girls? Or with everyone? What would etiquette dictate?
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