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Unusual flutterings

Emma5outh

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Hello

My name is Emma, I'm a mum of one 7 year old boy.*

Apologies in advance of the forthcoming long post. I'm hoping to gain some advise from others as I am unsure whether I may be pregnant. I live in a small village where everyone knows everyone, so I have purchased a test online to arrive in the post on Monday.*

I do suffer from PCOS and in the last few years I have gained some weight, meaning that my periods have been all over the place with no pattern or consistency at all, complicating matters entirely as I have no idea where I am in my cycle, but do know that I am way overdue!*

What has led me here is some unusual futterings/twinges/pulling sensations in the same area I would normally experience period pains. Usually my pains are quite strong and come and go. These are similar in that they are quite spontaneous but they are also very slight, I wouldn't call them painful at all (unlike usual totm pains). It's almost similar to a nervous type feeling but down there. This began 2 weeks ago.*

Now, early January hubby and I got carried away and had half unprotected sex. I say this because he did pull out before doing the deed (cringe!) There have been no other incidents of unprotected sex.*

Last week after sex, I had a small amount of blood when cleaning up. This may have happened to me before but I don't remember when as it's not a frequent thing that happens to me after sex. I think I assumed that my period was on its way, but of course it hasn't shown.

Other than this I have no other symptoms really. I've been emotional, had a little cry for no real reason this week. But then I do have a lot going on lately so could just be a fluke! One memory of my pregnancy with my son was how incredibly sick I was (I was given anti sickness pills from dr) but I don't have this at all.*

I tend to notice the twinges when I am sat down relaxing but notice nothing when active.*

It's helpful to write all this out. I'm going to do a test once it arrives to weigh it out really. I'm just confused by these fluttering and what else they could be?*

Is it really possible to become pregnant if hubby pulled out before doing the deed? We don't make a habit of the so-called pull it method!*

Has anyone else experienced this?

Any advise or suggestions would be most welcome!*

Emma

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I would say it's very unlikely to get pregnant that way but not totally impossible - definitely do the test just in case.
 
I agree although it is possible to get pregnant this way it's very unlikely. It's actually the method of birth control me and my husband currently use while we're waiting to try and to be honest we've used it for years and never had any issues with it. (Wouldn't recommend it as birth control but I don't get on well with hormonal contraception, we use condoms for him to finish but to be honest neither of us would think it was the end of the world if we got pregnant which is why we aren't worried about using that as a method of contraception)
 

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