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[Mrs CW]

Hello,
So we have 2 gorgeous boys and at Easter had a surprise pregnancy. Unfortunately I had an MMC at 10 weeks and after a hectic few months everything caught up with me. I've always wanted a 3rd child but my hubby didn't so I had decided I was happy with our family of 4. The surprise pregnancy has made me realise I definitely want another child and I can't get the thought of another baby out of my head. My hubby still isn't sure although he did work out we can't fall at the moment as we have a big holiday next year and I wouldn't be able to go if we fell now so he's obviously thinking about it. I think it will be January at the earliest for us.
Thanks for reading x

 

[kanga86]

Hey Mrs CW, I recognise your name. I have 3 boys and I had a chemical pregnancy in July. I have wanted a 4th since my 3rd was born 16m ago but ever since the cp I have wanted it even more. My hubby is firmly in the no camp and I am hoping to be able to change his mind at some point. Fingers crossed you get to try in January for a 3rd, it is good you'd hubby us thinking about it. How old are your 2 boys? I'm hoping for July next year xx

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[Mrs CW]

Hey Kanga, I remember your name, I think we went through a pregnancy together. My boys are 5 and 4 so would be quite a different gap this time. How old are your boys? I've been extremely emotional and I don't know if my hubby has just said it to appease me for now. Fx your hubby comes round to the idea of a 4th x

 

[kanga86]

My boys are 5 (July), 3 in 2 weeks and 16 months. So yes we possibly went through the first pregnancy together. I think my hubby said he would consider a 4th whilst I was pregnant with our 3rd just to appease me too, probably in the hopes I would get over it He doesn't know about the chemical as I haven't told him as I'm sure he would book up the snip straight away and I don't think it would change much if he knew. I have told him I thought I was pregnant and it sparked the need for baby number 4 though. I'm coming around to the idea of a slightly larger gap this time, but if my non sensible head took over we would ttc this cycle, we are only using condoms and tracking my cycle so very easy to do xx

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[kanga86]

Just had a look through old posts to see when we could have been pregnant together and we were for a short time in 2011. I had a mmc in June 2011 at 11wks.

Come at say hello in the I can't believe I'm back thread in wtt as there are a few of us waiting. Kits is ttc in Nov and babymaker from May ish xx

 

[Mrs CW]

Yes, sorry I didn't look at your signature. My hubby said before that it would feel wrong having another baby when he is firmly a no so I told him it would feel wrong for me to accept not having another. After that he started thinking about dates etc.
I'll head over to the other thread x

 

[kanga86]

That gives me hope as I've told hubby I will regret not having another whereas he wouldn't regret or not love a baby when they were here. I said either way I will be the disappointed one forever or he will be disappointed for a short time. I've not worded that quite right, but I'm sure you understand. So far I've not changed his mind xx

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[Princess81]

Hello ladies! I’m back here you. Some of the old crowd still here I’m waiting til July when I get married then full on ttc mission.

 

[Mrs CW]

Good to see you back Princess! Good luck with the wedding! Lots of exciting times ahead for you! I officially start ttc next month x

 

[Princess81]

Good to see you back Princess! Good luck with the wedding! Lots of exciting times ahead for you! I officially start ttc next month x

That’s exciting!! Get the festivities put the way and then on with the baby making
My dress for the wedding is so unforgiving.....anything other than 10dpo I won’t fit in it