the stupidest thing

[Robyn_]

happened to me.

Now i m pregnant, its like im a different person to everyone,like through their eyes not mine, cos i havent changed, apart from getting a bit chubby,
but i mean
i wanted to keep it from people until i knew it was completly safe and everything was alright,
and what happened.. my so called "best mate" went and told everyone.
she said she thought it was alright to tell people becasue i was doing it anyway i had such a go at her and basically told her i dont want to be her friend cos she broke the trust.(shes done it before with other things aswell)
is it me or is it obvious that you want to tell people yourself considering i am the pregnant one
anyways,
ive had people slagging me off left right and center cos she opened her mouth and becasue i am pregnant and a teen, and it annoys the feck outta me, theres been other girls been like.. ahh look at you slag.
but im doing a totally natural thing im bringing a child into the world why does age matter..? its so pathetic. it really is.
this girl who told everyone, cos she isnt my friend anymore, said i went well over the top in being angry with her, but it wasnt just my feelings she hurt it was my bfs and loads of my mates.
do you think i over reacted? i think i had the right to be annoyed

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

deffo hun u should have been allowed to tell people not a friend id never tell people something like that, ur news to tell.

 

[clairescunny55]

i dont blame you hun i would've done the same thing, she certainly aint a friend to do that. I was only 17 when i fell preg with my 1st baby and i hated all the crap ppl used to tell me but i just learned to shrug it off, as im sure you will too. Hope you're ok

 

[mummykay]

i would have given her a slap, little b*tch!!!!
so out of order, rise above it hun, its ur life not theirs

 

[MissGobby]

ahhh hun im sorry about your 'friend' - you get people like that wherever you go!!!

its your life, your baby, your choice, NO-ONE elses - remember that hun, if you think that you capable of bringing a child into this world then good on you, i dont judge anyone on their age, alot of young teen mums are better than the older mums!!!!

im 19 (nearly 20) and TTC for first baby but havent told anyone apart from a couple of close mates, and obviously all these on here!! becuase i know that people will judge me and i cant be bothered with the s*it they will come out with, me and DF have been together nearly 4 years and we feel we are both ready to have a baby!! so dont let them get to you hun!!

congrats on your pregnancy btw (sorry for rambling on! )

 

[Robyn_]

ahhh hun im sorry about your 'friend' - you get people like that wherever you go!!!

its your life, your baby, your choice, NO-ONE elses - remember that hun, if you think that you capable of bringing a child into this world then good on you, i dont judge anyone on their age, alot of young teen mums are better than the older mums!!!!

im 19 (nearly 20) and TTC for first baby but havent told anyone apart from a couple of close mates, and obviously all these on here!! becuase i know that people will judge me and i cant be bothered with the s*it they will come out with, me and DF have been together nearly 4 years and we feel we are both ready to have a baby!! so dont let them get to you hun!!

congrats on your pregnancy btw (sorry for rambling on! )

i know what you mean alot of my close friends have been very supportive even one i fell out with for ages said hed always be there for me. but there is some who just wont stop giving me shit and they are obviously not good enough to be my friends,
i dont care abotu that girl no more shes just selfish, she was my best mate for like 9 years, and now i realised what a bitch she really is!

i really do hope that things go your way and you get your own little Angel. i personally cant wait for this. and my fingers are corssed for you hunni, if people judge you tell them where to go

 

[Riley's Mommy]

what a little cow

i had a simmilar sort of thing, but on a different scale, and know how annoying it is. it is your baby not theirs, therefore its you who should tell people

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

sorry about that hun you have every right to get mad, a friend had told me and i wasnt suppost to tell everyone and although it killed me for weeks , im glad i didnt say anything its her news not mine
Katrina

 

[Robyn_]

she does make me so angry,
grr..
some girls are so immature.
no wonder i dont like them

 

[Barmi_Brummeh]

Yeah u done the right thing chick!! I wuda gone mad too, at the end of the day ur pregnant, u shud be able to go and tell who u want wen u want, not for ur so called 'friend' to go round tellin everyone xx

 

[frangelle]

I got pregnant with my first child when I was 17, and got grief at school, and people staring at me. So after I had my baby, I went back to school and finished my English A Level, just to show them all I wasn't some Vicky Pollard.

Everyone thought I was a drop out etc, but I am now happily married, another baby on the way and I am doing Open University Courses to better myself. Don't listen to anything people say, just prove them wrong hun.

How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

 

[neeko_1]

hey hun i'm 19 and it's the same with me... now everyone is cool that i'll be a mum

but when my family 1st found out they where saying all nasty thing about me and still kind of do

don't listen to other people trust me as long as your happy and you are getting some kind of support then stuff them

and tell your friend to pee off she ain't doing nothing for you, i'm sorry to say

keep your head up and think of your little baba

where all here

 

[sophie-jordan]

u deffo did the right thing hun .. its your baby y shud she get 2 tell everyone 4!!
i deffo went throgh the same thing as u as i was only 14 when i had my 1st .. and in relation 2 your question NO age doesnt matter your just as capable as sum1 twice your age
sum1 who can break your trust like that aint realli a friend
how old r u if u dnt mind me askin?
all the best
x sophie x

 

[Robyn_]

was 16 when i fell pregnant and now im 17

some people just dont deserve time of day

 

[sophie-jordan]

exactly u r always going to get the people starrin at u like u r doin somthing wrong but u jst gota c past them n carry on with your life n do wats best 4 u n baby
x sophie x

 

[LPx]

hey sorry bout ur "friend" tellin every1.

im 16 and 2 months pregnant, but im telling no1 until later on cos me and my bf dont want ppl butting in or spreading it around.

I'd try 2 get over it and enjoy bein pregnant just 2 spite her!

good luck

 

[Robyn_]

hey sorry bout ur "friend" tellin every1.

im 16 and 2 months pregnant, but im telling no1 until later on cos me and my bf dont want ppl butting in or spreading it around.

I'd try 2 get over it and enjoy bein pregnant just 2 spite her!

good luck

yeah we didnt tell anyone, i told my 2 best friends.
and then suddenly things just got out of control
congrats btw good luck with your pregnancy
x

 

[LPx]

thankies how old are you btw? we've told evry1 now so we have there being really supportive . We wernt at skl anymore so i dunno how random skl ppl would of reacted but our proper friends have been told an they just congratulated us. Dont let other ppl get to you as long as your happy rest of the world can go fu*k themselves. Anyhoo gl and ttyl
Btw this is lisa's BF

 

[trixipaws]

u do hav the right to be annoyed she sounds like a silly girl.

 

[Robyn_]

thankies how old are you btw? we've told evry1 now so we have there being really supportive . We wernt at skl anymore so i dunno how random skl ppl would of reacted but our proper friends have been told an they just congratulated us. Dont let other ppl get to you as long as your happy rest of the world can go fu*k themselves. Anyhoo gl and ttyl
Btw this is lisa's BF

i am now 17, turned 17 in march,
most people we know now know cos people couldnt keep their mouths shut which is annoying but its not really got anything to do with anyone else has it.
i just cant be doing with little school kids anymore.
take care and everyithng =] xx