The Big "V"...

[emilia]

My DH is hoping to get a vasectomy next week! It will happen, no doubt.... looks like that's my "baby-making" days are over!

Anyone elses DH getting the big "V"?

Emilia xx

 

[rach]

emilia hun you dont seem too happy about this are you sure you dont want any more babies? xxxxxxxxx

 

[Tara & Liam]

my hubby is too chicken, thinks that he will loose his mascalinity or something like that.

you never know emilia they are not always successful

have you thought about any items yet

 

[emilia]

have you thought about any items yet

What does that mean Davina? I'm curious now... are you talking rabbits?

Rach... We've got 3 children. The older two are 12 & 10.... Oscar was the wee cherry on the cake. I adore my kids and I really can't imagine having another to share with Oscar.

Once upon a time I would have loved 4 or even 5. I'm happy to stop here.... just makes me a wee bitty sad too. Two perfectly good ovaries are now having to retire!

I guess I won't be SAD if another bunny hopped along .... Oh gawd... DH will do his nut!

Emilia xx

 

[Tara & Liam]

have you thought about any items yet

What does that mean Davina? I'm curious now... are you talking rabbits?

Rach... We've got 3 children. The older two are 12 & 10.... Oscar was the wee cherry on the cake. I adore my kids and I really can't imagine having another to share with Oscar.

Once upon a time I would have loved 4 or even 5. I'm happy to stop here.... just makes me a wee bitty sad too. Two perfectly good ovaries are now having to retire!

I guess I won't be SAD if another bunny hopped along .... Oh gawd... DH will do his nut!

Emilia xx

lol no, for the shoes hun. i can send a bunny if you want one.

 

[emilia]

Oooooohhhhhh.. Had to engage my brain there!! No... still thinking! Thanks but you can keep your bunny! I've got enough to deal with.... ta anyway!

Emilia xx

 

[Tara & Liam]

i am torn between wanting another one and then not. i really dont know. i was offered a sterilisation at my last section, but i didnt want the option taken away from me

 

[Dee1985]

make sure your OH goes back and gives his 3 samples. my dad only went back the once
...... 7 yrs later.... my mum is pregnant!!!!!!! she didnt find out till 6months as she thought there was no way it was poss... she was 37 and thought it was the menapors (sp)

she had
me 21
carl 18
jade 14
kayleigh..... born sleeping 13
niall 12

then thought baby days were over
dad had snip....

then came along Tyler 5

 

[xSuzx]

hi emilia

Mines having the big "V" next week too, and I feel the same as you do, don't really want lily to have to share her time with me, plus having 2 previous posterior labors wasn't fun and don't want to risk it again.

but at the same time I morn that it won't happen again esp when I look at peoples tickers and see things like 18 weeks pregnant makes me feel sad sometimes, but then remember how bad I had it with lily lol.

I sometimes feel its a waste of my fertiliy if you know what I mean.

xSuzx

 

[Dee1985]

how olds your OH suz?

 

[xSuzx]

He's only 28

but feels our family's complete with having 2 boys and lily, and as I seem to get pregnant quite easily I think he's scared of any slip ups lol.

 

[Dee1985]

im the same too. get preg very easily.

im only 21 been preg 5 times

im really happy now with my girl and boy and my heart aint in it now to have any more. iv always only wanted 2 babies young close together girl first then a boy, iv been so lucky so i htink il stop while im ahead.

 

[Alicebabe]

Emilia, is he having this done under local anaesthetic or general? I have scrubbed for a few of those operations whilst working in a day theatre unit - its very interesting to watch! Most of the men had it done under local there.

 

[emilia]

Emilia, is he having this done under local anaesthetic or general? I have scrubbed for a few of those operations whilst working in a day theatre unit - its very interesting to watch! Most of the men had it done under local there.

Hi Alicebabe.... yip, just local anaesthetic! Poor bloke... He's having it done privately, so I hope they're gently with him!

xSuzx.... I do get a wee bitty sad when I look at the tickers too & realise that I had my last shot at it. Oscar is a real blessing - it took me 9 years to negotiate it with DH to have another child. So, I am immensely greatful to have Oscar. I have a lovely family and Oscar has really brought more love & affection to our home.

I might miss having a ticker ever again, but as I feel now, I will never ever be able to share Oscar with another bunny. My body also feels quite exhausted after my pregnancy & birth. I'm like an old fogy when I get out of bed in the morning....

So as it stands .... I am more likely to conceive from a bit of pollen stuck in the wrong alley, than a spermie swimming his socks off!!


Emilia xx

 

[Jade89]

my sister wanted her tubes tied, forgot what its called lol, but the dr wont let her for some reason, so her husband is getting a V soon...

i could never bring myself to do that

 

[budge]

My DH is hoping to get a vasectomy next week! It will happen, no doubt.... looks like that's my "baby-making" days are over!

Anyone elses DH getting the big "V"?

Emilia xx

yes i have two large heavy bricks ready for the occasion.

 

[xSuzx]

ouch budge

Emilia Is he having the one where they don't need stitchs then, my hubby got referred by his RAF dr and is going to a Private clinic (Marie Stopes) and hes have a local anestetic and no stitchs.

It only takes about 10mins and is quite interesting to watch, I downloaded a video of a no stitchs versectomy, needless to say hubby wouldn't watch it

xSuzx

 

[Tara & Liam]

My DH is hoping to get a vasectomy next week! It will happen, no doubt.... looks like that's my "baby-making" days are over!

Anyone elses DH getting the big "V"?

Emilia xx

yes i have two large heavy bricks ready for the occasion.

why dont you advertise your two bricks privately, maybe you can make some cash

 

[emilia]

ouch budge

Emilia Is he having the one where they don't need stitchs then, my hubby got referred by his RAF dr and is going to a Private clinic (Marie Stopes) and hes have a local anestetic and no stitchs.

It only takes about 10mins and is quite interesting to watch, I downloaded a video of a no stitchs versectomy, needless to say hubby wouldn't watch it

xSuzx

DH is going to quite a posh hospital, so not only will he be "stitch free", but aparently, he'll also get a good seeing to before hand from 3 nurses..... so he thinks anyway !!!!! (I think he's hoping that his pipes need cleaned out before the op)

Sorry... got to laugh! This is the closest he's ever going to come to experiencing "labour pains"!

Good luck to your DH too - shame... they'll be dying for a few days after. Only bit I'm rejoycing about is the fact that DH will be in too much discomfort for nookie........ phew.... I have a break at last!

Emilia xx

 

[Tara & Liam]

you want to walk around in all seductive clothing once hes had the op emilia. give yourself a laugh.

a lady at works hubby had a V and his balls went black