Ok....so I need some advice. With my first, I wasn't able to successfully bf exclusively. I tried nursing, but had to give her formula to top her up (she was low birthweight and wasn't gaining weight fast enough). I remember I was told to use nipple cream to help me, but no one ever said when to use it or how?. I feel really really stupid for asking, but do you use it before, after, or need to wipe it off before feeding? All I know is that it's recommended. I never had pain issues with feeding last time, but I think it's because I didn't feed for long.