This post kind of fits here i think.
I had a very difficult pregnancy which resulted in losing my baby at 38 weeks.
During the pregnancy and losing her, i had no support and only one letter and one text from what i recall ( we lived a great distance away when i got married)
She was supposedly a very good friend and was my bridesmaid, i was hers
I heard nothing whatsoever from her after i lost my baby except for ten months later when i got an invite to her anniversary party which made me feel nothing but anger to be honest.
This happened several years ago, i now live relatively near again but i have no intention of seeing her we no longer have a friendship and i think she was not only a terrible friend but a terrible person generally for not showing the slightest bit of regard for us.
I recieved a text from aomeone yesterday who knows us both to say that this girl is now expecting. Im really struggling with it. I had forgotten all about her and all the feelings i had and now its all back. Im raging to be honest and i cannot help but hope she now has some empathy to what i must have gone through carrying a very poorly child and losing her.
I just needed to get this out.
Im not wishing them harm in any way but i want her to remember and realise what a shit friend she was to be honest.
I had a very difficult pregnancy which resulted in losing my baby at 38 weeks.
During the pregnancy and losing her, i had no support and only one letter and one text from what i recall ( we lived a great distance away when i got married)
She was supposedly a very good friend and was my bridesmaid, i was hers
I heard nothing whatsoever from her after i lost my baby except for ten months later when i got an invite to her anniversary party which made me feel nothing but anger to be honest.
This happened several years ago, i now live relatively near again but i have no intention of seeing her we no longer have a friendship and i think she was not only a terrible friend but a terrible person generally for not showing the slightest bit of regard for us.
I recieved a text from aomeone yesterday who knows us both to say that this girl is now expecting. Im really struggling with it. I had forgotten all about her and all the feelings i had and now its all back. Im raging to be honest and i cannot help but hope she now has some empathy to what i must have gone through carrying a very poorly child and losing her.
I just needed to get this out.
Im not wishing them harm in any way but i want her to remember and realise what a shit friend she was to be honest.
