STOP TRYING AND IT HAPPENS X X X

[bossbump]

I know its so hard to stop thinking about babies when that is all you are thinking about expecially if you are trying and been trying for some time. I suffered an early misscarage in 2005 all i did was worry the whole time it was in their that i was going to lose it. I kinda told myself i told you so when i lost it at just a few weeks. I decided i didnt want no children and i was going to wait a few years and travel the world get a great career and buy a house. I waited for my period to come so i could start taking my pill . IT NEVER ALONG CAME JODIE. after jodie we vowed not to have any more and spoil her rotten. I got brudy and we decided to try again to have our children close together but we never got caught. Deciding on a summer holiday and maybe a camping trip as a family now jodie is getting old enough. IT NEVER CAME AGAIN. my motto is stop trying and its possible i know i did't try for too long but it seartainly worked for us. x x x x x x goood luck to you all

 

[Charlotte & Emily]

im glad it worked for you hun

 

[Becs]

Glad that worked for you.

 

[happy-chick]

Great it worked for u hun, I know people say relax but I really found it hard to relax if im honest! x

 

[poppy160]

Most people find that..I don't think I have been trying enough to have a break though!

 

[libs]

If you can get pregnant with your partner without medical intervention you're not really stopping trying though are you? You're not using contraception but just not thinking about it.

For those of us who can't conceive naturally with partner or who need medical help in order to become pregnant it isn't going to happen if we stop trying.

So glad it happened for you - but for some of us this simple option isn't available.

 

[lainey]

As said above CHuffed it worked for you....

BUT



Easier said than done! If i had a £1 for everyone that told me that, id have enuf saved up for IVF!!!

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

Ive stopped trying - well i still know what cycle days im on but ive stopped charting as it was just way too stressfull. Im just not preventing, and wether it works or not I'll tell you this - our sex life is a million times better, im much more relaxed, my dermatitus has cleared up, and we're enjoying life again other than feeling like its on hold waiting for a baby.

So works for me anyway

Ive got this HSG coming up and then probably going on the waiting list for IVF, but in the meantime im not going to worry about it, well not too much anyway.