Sorry feeling down today can i have a rant:(

[Melly+2]

Godi feel like crap today
I lookedin the mirror this morning and my face looks massive, 5 million chins, jeeeze.
Gal made the smart move of reffering to me as a whale, he said he only did it as i joke aboutit all the time so he was just doing what i was doing
It made me cry and he was so sympatetic and really sorry.Hes organising a stag do soon and i let out to him that it worrie me he willfind someone else while hes out drinking, not that hes ever given me any reason to think he would ever do that, its just my paranoia. He said it was ok but that im stupid and that he loves me and im his sexy lady yeah right but he means it i think.
Im just so depressed about my weight gain and need to not put any more on but im struggling ataying away from crappy food, chocolate is my down fall atm, god some one help me before i break downm about this as its been an on going issue for a long time now and my confidence is slipping and i fear it may never return

 

[nori]

aww hun, try not to worry about the weight gain as it WILL come off when baby is here. Ive put on 4 stone and also have about 3-4 chins! My face does look pretty fat but thats cos your body produces its own steroids through pregnancy.. it'll go. Oh and my OH calls me his buddah! lovely!!

I can totally empathise with the paranoia thing. I was the same when my OH went on a stag do. Kept telling myself that he'd end up shagging someone else as he wasnt getting much from me! I also got funny with him last night as his mates girlfriend text him instead of me to ask how i was even though she has my number! WHY??? lol.. see.. its not just you!!

Damn the pregnancy hormones!

Claire x

 

[hennaly]

Bloody hell mel i just looked at your ticker and cant believe how far gone you are already
Dont worry about the weight, you have plenty of time to get rid of that running round after baby and just keep reminding yourself you have created a new person inside you which is so amazing a bit of extra weight is insignifigant

 

[lisaspoon]

I'm exactly the same hun,...6 chins as well and even MIL pointed it out at the weekend...
I even think my nose looked bigger yesterday!

I'm the same on the paranoid thing,....hormones driving me nuts and we havent had any sex/nookie for about 16 weeks am convinced a man cant go that long with out any kind of "release" but when I ask or should I say get upset about it, he claims that he's just happy as things are at the moment and I'm carrying his child and also the mother of his child and nothing can take that away

I feel like a beached whale as well and also feel horrible today and feel like i'm coming down with something....feel stuffy and throat feels scratchy

hugs to everyone who needs it... xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[reallyoldmum]

Mel

Add another to the list - my friends keep on saying my skin looks great but I know its because all my wrinkles have filled out with fat!!! If one more person says I am blooming/blossoming I think I will hit them - I wanted to be like Angelina Jolie this pregnancy instead of which I have turned into Dawn French!!!!!

Our friend was giving Dave tips last week and suggested that he didnt copy him - apparently when his wife was 7 months he started making beeping noises when she moved - like a lorry when it reverses....... he ended up wearing his dinner!!

It will be worth it in the end honey.

Jane x

 

[chickadee1976]

I wanted to be like Angelina Jolie this pregnancy instead of which I have turned into Dawn French!!!!!

Lol this made me laugh, im feeling the same way, Brian still wants to have sex with me but im making it really hard by trying to conceal myself in the duvet cover so he doesnt see how huge i am.

 

[reallyoldmum]

Dave did offer to airbrush me each morning as he recons this is the only way she can look so amazing when having twins .

On a serious note we were still have sex a couple of times a week until this weekend but on Sunday after DTD I had really bad pains at the bottom of my bump which seemed to last all day - its sort of put me off a bit does anyone else get this and is it "normal"?

Jane x

 

[nori]

On a serious note we were still have sex a couple of times a week until this weekend but on Sunday after DTD I had really bad pains at the bottom of my bump which seemed to last all day - its sort of put me off a bit does anyone else get this and is it "normal"?

Jane x

twice a week?? my god! My OH is lucky to get it twice a month!! I hope he realises how lucky he is!!

Sorry cant help with the pain due to the lack of sex aspect!

Claire x

 

[EllieBelle]

Oh Mel sorry to hear you are having a bad few days........believe me we all have them in some shape or form

On the other subject Im still having sex at least once a week, and have done since I first fell pregnant! Im actually finding it much more enjoyable now than it was back in Tri 1 and 2!

I dont get any pain Jane, although I make sure Im surrounded by pillows for support

 

[jolene]

bless you i know what youmean about the weight thing. I keep telling myself that 1/2 stone of it it baby so that will soon be off, the rest is water. (ha ha very unlikely i know, but it keeps me happy) x

p.s if it makes you feel better, i got told i look like buddha!

 

[lisaspoon]

I think whats put me off having sex is the fact I had a really big bleed one time about 2 years ago (non pregnancy related) but it was to do with my cervix being sensitive and have abrasions (sp?) on it from taking the pill. Also I think thrush aggrivated it as well.....

It hasnt happened since and I had it treated, but its always at the back of my mind, and now is the last time I want to bleed again

also I'm snoozing before my head hits the pillow these days

 

[emmie]

Have some hugs hun

I feel exactly the same, i have such a huge ass now its unreal and it was big before i cant wait to start breast feeding and get rid of this blubber lol

and on the chin front i have more chins than a chinese phone book

 

[halemon]

what am i moaning about, sitting here eating another tube of fruit pastilles?!!!

My chins have also multiplied, OH calls me moonface!!!
My thighs are now huge and all orangey peely, my ass is huge - just hold up an empty pair of trousers that ive been wearing to see the stretch print!!!! I am a right old fatty now, OH calls me his pudding, oh how sweet!! no sex thanks very much - do feel guilty about it although he's very nice about it all and often feel a bit of a mess in the looks department. Tell yourself you are beautiful, even if you dont believe it because you are, your baby will think you are wonderful. Its natural to put on weight everywhere

 

[ninjawomble]

My OH "jokingly" beeped as I walked backwards the other week..... I was NOT amused

He tells me I look goregous but the four stone of weight is all I see...plus I cant cross my legs they are so swollen
My confidence is shot
All I think is how much worse Im gonna feel when I have post baby flappy belly

 

[Melly+2]

Thanks everyone, still feeling shitty but i suppose ill get over it, not alot i can do about it now really

 

[nori]

My OH "jokingly" beeped as I walked backwards the other week..... I was NOT amused

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LOL.. sorry i know i shouldnt laugh but that did make me giggle. Why are men so crap??!!