Soooo confused!

[Dreamer]

WE have been TTC since december!

i was on implanon, had it taken out at xmas.

Took my first period 25th feb, and it was a bad one!

i done a test the other day a BFN, and then thursday night i got really bad back pain and could hardly move, thought it was a sign of AF, but still nothing.

And to top it all off, this last too weeks, i have had really bad heart burn, which i dont usually get, and my tummy feels weird

Plus i have been very tired, and i slept quite a bit last night!

I even feel asleep on the sofa yesterday evening, this is not something i usually do!

i just need the confusion to go

 

[Dreamer]

plus i have some spots on my chest when i dont usually have these

 

[Wobbles]

You know what I'm going to say here

You need to take it easy for your own sake if anything. Your testing before your period, etc. Calm down woman it will happen. ((Hugs))

Your periods will differ for a while I'd imagine. You haven't had one in so long so they need to regulate them selves.

I have bad periods - Back pain, legs cramped, stomach cramps, tender boobs sometimes all sometimes just 1 or 2.

If you still feel you should test wait until 'after' you have stopped bleeding.

 

[Dreamer]

I aint bleeding!!

And i know what ur saying

 

[Wobbles]

Oh have you came off now? Thought you told me you were on the other day

Give it a week & try to stay calm - Easier said than done

My home tests showed positive before my doctors & the hospital so I'd go by them for now.

 

[Dreamer]

I aint been bleeding!!!

Thats what i am saying!!!

 

[Wobbles]

Well it's not like I remember much lately LOL

I remember now.

 

[Dreamer]

 

[Dreamer]

AF still hasnt come, and im afraid to do a test

AF was due on Friday, you all are more experienced than me, when do you think i should test?

 

[nikki1306]

Hi Dreamer

I know your frustration!! It took two weeks from the day my period was due to get even a faint positive

The tests that i found best were the clear blue digital,sainsbury's and boots. The sainsbury's ones seemed the most sensitive,they showed up a faint positive even when first response and predictor tests were giving me BFN's.

All you can do is test every 3 days and hope that AF doesn't show,keep my fingers crossed for you xx

 

[Dreamer]

I tested tonight using clear blue and it was BFN, im very dissappointed, but I am getting tummy pains, not like AF at all, and i have a painful back and I feel so tired.

Going to make an appointment with my doctor and see whats going on, may try one of the other tests.

 

[Dreamer]

Well my AF was due a week ago, and still no sign, im was convinced i was pregnant, done a test on tuesday night, it said i wasnt , have made an appointment at doctors for Monday morning.

Can i just ask,on my ticker it says * days till baby dancing, does that mean i have to test on that day? Have i tested too early?

This is all confusing stuff

 

[skatty]

I think that means when your ovulation is expected. If you haven't had AF yet then you could be pregnant, that's so exciting! try a different brand cos people have different outcomes with different brands - even a slight line will mean you are. I have everything crossed for you!

Good luck xx

 

[Dreamer]

Thank you very much!

i am gonna try the tesco own brand ones, a friend recommended them!

i am excited, but dont wanna be in case it turns to dissapointment!

but ill be test again before monday

Thank you for your best wishes

 

[Jaidy]

Let us know how you get on at the doctors hun.

Its so confusing, periods, ovualtion, when to test. Do you have any idea when your period is due? You are supposed to get a positive from the day your period is due if you are pregnant according to tests, but thats not always the case.

If you dont know when your period is due I would just test once a week whilst your still having symptoms.

A few of my friends have had Implanon taken out and it has taken some of them a few months to get regular cycles again, but there is still hope you are preggers!!! I do hope so.

Baby Dust To You Dreamer!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Dreamer]

aww jaidy how sweet!

I had my AF on Feb 25th, that was my first since having the implanon removed, but i am not just going by that, its the heart burn and a few other things

 

[Jaidy]

Well if I were in your shoes I would just test each week until you either get a BFP or (heaven forbid) your period.

Id defo go to the docs on Mon tho, you never know you might get some good news!! Ask for a blood test, there may not be enough HCG in your blood to show positive on a test yet, but a blood test will come back positive if you are preggers!!!! I really hope you are, but if your not, there are always future months and its obv not your time yet. Thats what I always tell myself!!

Let us know how it goes sweet, love and hugs

 

[Dreamer]

Aww thank you!

You are all so sweet!

Still no AF , am going shopping in a bit, going to get one of them tesco PTs and try it.

Thank you very much for your hope!

I wish you future happiness in the form of a baby and I hope it happens soon for u honey

 

[Jaidy]

Good luck with Tesco test, let us know asap what the outcome is.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you!! xxx

 

[skatty]

Hi Dreamer! Did you do another test yet? I think its about time we are due a BFP, it seems to have been a while since we have had one!