Hi everyone,
I know this maybe seems like a really silly thing to complain about when there's so much more important things to worry about during a pregnancy, but has anyone else had a really snooty response from friends/family about their pregnancy?
I'm nearly 25 but i'm the first one out of my group of friends to fall pregnant and from some of the comments they've made anyone would think i was about 15! We all went to university together and i get the feeling that they think my degree is now wasted and that having a child means i won't amount to anything. They base a lot of relevance on money and success and i get the impression they think i can't achieve any of that now. They also regularly talk about things that they know i won't be able to take part in anymore in front of me (like holidays, festivals, nights out etc) which i find a little insensitive.
I've always wanted to be a freelance novelist and i really hope that i can prove them wrong and show that having a baby doesn't mean the end of my life/career and that i can have a happy medium.
Sorry for the huge rant but i feel like in some ways i'm being a little over sensitive and just need to unleash...damn hormones!
I know this maybe seems like a really silly thing to complain about when there's so much more important things to worry about during a pregnancy, but has anyone else had a really snooty response from friends/family about their pregnancy?
I'm nearly 25 but i'm the first one out of my group of friends to fall pregnant and from some of the comments they've made anyone would think i was about 15! We all went to university together and i get the feeling that they think my degree is now wasted and that having a child means i won't amount to anything. They base a lot of relevance on money and success and i get the impression they think i can't achieve any of that now. They also regularly talk about things that they know i won't be able to take part in anymore in front of me (like holidays, festivals, nights out etc) which i find a little insensitive.
I've always wanted to be a freelance novelist and i really hope that i can prove them wrong and show that having a baby doesn't mean the end of my life/career and that i can have a happy medium.
Sorry for the huge rant but i feel like in some ways i'm being a little over sensitive and just need to unleash...damn hormones!