Hi girls. I sent my application in and received a response about a week later saying how much I was entitled to etc.. You don't have to tell them on the initial application form when you are intending to stop work. What happens is they send you a form that you send back to them once you have actually stopped work to start your maternity leave. That's when you declare what date you have stopped work. If you wish to stop work 11 weeks before your due date, but only get the form back later than that, for example 9 weeks before your due date, you just put the date that you stopped work on and they will pay your MA in arrears from the date that you say you stopped. Does that make any sense at all?!
It is independent of what your partner earns, so if you're self employed and have been for the requisite amount of time, you will be eligible for at least some MA, depending on how much you earned before.
Hope that wasn't just a load of rubbish I've just written...
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