hi am taking a break from TTC i have got into hull uni which i didn't think i would have a hope in hell in getting (125 applicants 29 places) so we wanted to TTC and take a year out because of the age gap thing (may have even took longer to fall anyway.) but i have got in so am going to do that instead it is prob for the best as it will be very hard work to do with a toddler and baby, i hate the idea of a 5yr age gap but i know it is for the best the new baby would not have as much of my time either and i would feel guilty for that. this was a hard choice but i feel its right. well anyway GOOD LUCK TO ALL and hope your not here in three years unless your TTC another child i know i ant been here long but just wanted to tell you all xx