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[Emzybabe20]

Hi as some of you may know i had a mc last year and i have my 12 week scan next week im just worried that when i get there i will be told that there isnt no hb or baby has stopped growing i no its probley me just worrying but after my mc last year i just want this time to be perfect my oh is also wracked with worry he keeps asking me all the time if i still have my symptons and that lol i no he means well but sumtimes it does get on my nerves a little lol xx

 

[mum2b410]

Hi! I'm feeling really nervous about my 12 week scan too hun (it's 2moro). I don't think that whatever we do or say we will stop worrying, but what I find comforts me a bit is thinking that whatever will be will be, there is nothing we can do to control it. Try no to think about it going badly as it may all be for nothing, try to stay neutral about it (if you can!) easier said than done I guess. I think maybe you should tell your OH you need him to try and stay calm for you. Let him know that you will tell him if you get any symptoms but that for now, all is ok and he needs to support you coz he is making you worry more.

Really hope all works out at your scan next week xx

 

[Emzybabe20]

thank you and he does mean well but he does worry a little to much but thats just him lol and ye il try not to worry and wen we do hav the scan it will more then likley b ok lol and good luck to you 2moro at your scan aswell hun xx

 

[Princess81]

Good luck to both of you ladies fx that everything is perfect xx