Pregnancy everywhere!!

[Apple2018]

Well on 3rd month of TTC and trying to be relaxed about it but not working really well ha ha! But a girl at my work just announced she is pregnant. I am happy for her and wish her all the best but can't help but feel jealous.
I was at a wedding last week and lots of people there with babies and toddlers plus two couples i know are expecting. It just seems everyone is getting pregnant except me.
So frightened in case it doesn't happen for me and i end up feeling like this all the time. Doesn't help when friends get pregnant by 'surprise' or get pregnant real quick and tell u 'we didn't have to try long'.
Plus my husband likes to tell people we are trying. I like how he is excited about it but i am dreading people he has told asking me about it - 'where's the baby?' Blah blah.
I've only told my sister and best friend who are good supports.

Does anyone else feel like this?

 

[xMillie]

Lots of ladies feel like this, yes. Before ttc you barely notice or care and then suddenly it seems like babies and pregnant women everywhere.

Hope you don’t have to wait too long, good luck x

 

[Apple2018]

Yeah i never really noticed before and now the whole world and their dog is pregnant!
Just adds to the stress of it! Xx

Lots of ladies feel like this, yes. Before ttc you barely notice or care and then suddenly it seems like babies and pregnant women everywhere.

Hope you don’t have to wait too long, good luck x

 

[Lollypop79]

This is totally me too. I have a lot of friends who are pregnant and saying how easy it was. Other friends are like oh I look at a penis and get pregnant and I want to tell them where to go. I’m just avoiding pregnant people at the mo. So your not alone x

 

[chattychar1990]

I am on the same boat but I think because we want it so bad we are noticing how many people are pregnant and how many pushchair you see being pushed around the supermarket or your shopping centre.
Don’t give up hope though, your only 3 cycles in. I am on my 9th and still waiting to see that pink line.

 

[EmmaN27]

Yeah as Char said, you're only on your 3rd cycle and it can take up to year, but hopefully it will happen sooner rather than later for you. Happened on 6th cycle for me, but I was lucky, many ladies have to wait closer to the year mark. x

 

[Apple2018]

Sending you all baby dust! Just makes me so frustrated but who know - maybe thr girl at work was trying for a long time too! X

 

[Lollypop79]

Sending you all baby dust! Just makes me so frustrated but who know - maybe thr girl at work was trying for a long time too! X

That’s very true. A lot of people don’t talk to people they know about this. It’s a very private painful thing going though. Thank god we have this forum. Good luck to us all xx

 

[Rainbow1234]

I feel the same. I had my 3rd mc in August and between then and now 3 of my close friends have announced pregnancies. Not knowing when it’s going to happen again is so difficult then the worry that I might have another miscarriage and end up surrounded by babies makes me just want to hide x

 

[Apple2018]

Sorry to hear you are going through this. Do the doctors know the reasons for the mc?

I feel the same. I had my 3rd mc in August and between then and now 3 of my close friends have announced pregnancies. Not knowing when it’s going to happen again is so difficult then the worry that I might have another miscarriage and end up surrounded by babies makes me just want to hide x

 

[Rainbow1234]

Sorry to hear you are going through this. Do the doctors know the reasons for the mc?

Nope, all my tests came back normal pretty much. I’ve been told just bad luck x

 

[Peony1]

Try and enjoy ttc at this stage and be happy that it could soon be you. I’ve been ttc for 2 and a half years now and I’m so glad that initially I was excited about ttc because now it’s just depressing. Especially when all my friends who started ttc after us have had their baby and some are going on to their second now. 3 months is no time at all so just enjoy the excitement of it all xx