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Ok, I'm 20 my menstrual cycle is not so regular, can be around 25- 29 days (usually no more no less). my last period was 1/09/2018

at 8th and 10 Sept I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend(we trust each other) but he didn't ejaculate inside me. We used the pull out method and he says he is always very careful and he can control himself. Well he indeed pulled out when he realised it was the time and both times came outside of me(excuse me but I must say it, I indeed saw his ejaculation outside of my vagina and nothing leaked out from my vagina after .) .
I know that in my case pre-cum didn't contain sperm because it didn't exist a previous ejaculation.

do you think is there any chance of just a drop of sperm to enter my vagina while he was pulling out so it could make me pregnant or no? I know that nobody can say for sure and I have to take a pregnacy test but it's a bit early and I'm nervous so I needed a bit of help. :)
 
Uhm when did you cycle start? When do you usually ovulate? What cycle day are you now? When did you last have sex?
Pull out method is a very dangerous game, if you're not ready for a child then why take the risk? Condoms aren't that expensive or you could ask your GP for a contraceptive.
 
Uhm when did you cycle start? When do you usually ovulate? What cycle day are you now? When did you last have sex?
Pull out method is a very dangerous game, if you're not ready for a child then why take the risk? Condoms aren't that expensive or you could ask your GP for a contraceptive.

as I already said, my cycle started 1st September, so I on the 24th day of cycle. Last time I had sex we had a condom we usually don't do it without. I can't say when do I ovulate (I don't have any body reactions then so that's why) and because my cycle is not that regular.
 
I would personally just sit tight and wait and see if your period comes or not and if not then take a test, but in all honesty it sounds very doubtful you are pregnant.

Before my partner and i were actively ttc he would always use the pull out method and we were ok - now im not saying you will NEVER get pregnant that way, just that theres a very slim chance.
 
It's always possible with withdrawal because sometimes timing on his part can be off. It's unlikely if you're saying that nothing entered your vagina, but not impossible. Fingers crossed you get the result you're looking for :)

Just to leave you with this though:

OH and I were using withdrawal for 11 months. No condoms, no pill. During my fertile window he would withdraw to ejaculate, and other times in the cycle he wouldn't withdraw. By the 11th month of doing this I fell pregnant with my first baby. I was dated a week ahead of what my period said so I think I ovulated an entire week early and caught because of this. However we were happy about this risk and discussed it before using it.

Some couples can use withdrawal for years and never get pregnant. Others can do it once and fall straight away. It's not an exact science and sometimes the dude can have really poor timing or self control. Sometimes the woman can be extra fertile or ovulate at a different part in the cycle when they thought they were safe.

I really wouldn't use this 'method' unless you've already discussed the possibility of having a child, and are comfortable with it happening.
 
The chances of pregnancy are slim but based on your breif cycle details not impossible as it sounds like you had sex close to or during your fertile period.

Sorry to sound harsh but the withdrawal method is not a way of practicing safe sex....condoms or other contraception should be used.

I echo what others have said in that you might get lucky and it might work for years or you might not and you could fall pregnant quickly. No man can control pre Cum and it happens for a fact....even thus can be enough to fall pregnant.

I strongly suggest that you consider your wishes for a child before continuing with this method or use some proper contraception.

There are a lot of people out there (particularly on this forum) who are trying everything to conceive with no success and whilst we are not a judgemental bunch hearing of people being irresponsible with contraception certainly boils my blood and may do the same for others.

I genuinely hope u have the outcome you want (altho unclear from your post which one that is) but beg of you to take action going forwards. Good luck x
 
There's not a lot of chance. From what I've read there is no sperm un pre cum, unless your partner had already ejaculated and not peed or washed since then.
 
I would suggest an appointment with a GP to discuss contraception if your wish isn't to have a baby and from your post that is what I can understand.
 
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I would personally just sit tight and wait and see if your period comes or not and if not then take a test, but in all honesty it sounds very doubtful you are pregnant.

Before my partner and i were actively ttc he would always use the pull out method and we were ok - now im not saying you will NEVER get pregnant that way, just that theres a very slim chance.


agreed
 

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